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i woke around 5 Monday morning from contractions in my back. i was in & out of sleep..so im not sure how close they where..but it they hurt a good bit & i rolled back & forth each one

around 5:35 i had to get up..i went to pee & when i wiped there was a very small amount of bloody mucus .

Michael's alarm went off at 5:40 & he got up & went in the living room.
i followed him in there & told him i thought i was in labor.
then we just sat there watching the news.

at 6 he asked me was i in labor for real, or did he need to get ready for work? i told him no..he wasent going to work.
then i decided to go take a shower & start getting stuff ready for whenever it was time to go.
I got in the shower , but couldnt stand in there long.
after i got out I started getting stuff together. laid out the girls clothes for that day.

around 6:20 he asked if he should get the kids ready. i said no, let them sleep a little more.
i wasent sure how long it would be till i felt ready to leave & didnt want them up & underfoot.

around 6:30 I told him to go wake kayden & to tell her to get ready fast & come dress kinley VERY QUICKLY. I was READY TO GO!!
so he went & woke kay , threw suitcase & baby bag in the van & started it so it could warm up.
then he came in got kinley ready & put them in the van while i called my SIL & mom & told them we where going in.

we left around 6:40

the ride there was ROUGH. i was panicking & wishing we had left earlier. contractions where 3-5 mins apart & VERY PAINFUL.
we got there at 7. michael dropped me off at the door & went & parked the van.
there was NO ONE anywhere around the front entrance. There is a desk..but no one there.
I sat down cause I couldnt walk anymore.
Michael came running in with the girls & i told him to grab the wheel chair I saw behind the desk.
I got in it & we hurried up to the 3rd floor.

well.at the other 2 hospitals I delivered at, they did registration in your room for L & D .i assumed it was the same here. but i got up there & they said I had to go back downstairs . i cussed & off we ran. We did stop & put kinley up on my leg cause michael was pushing me so fast that he was leaving her behind..lol
we get to registration..i was hurting BADELY & they had me registered within 5 mins. but then she says i have to go thru triage. by this point michael is getting pissed & im in so much pain & starting to panic cause i wanted to be in L & D
anyways. she takes my temp , then tries to get my blood pressure.. it dosent take. something was wrong & she says she needs to get another machine. i tell her NO. we need to go up RIGHT NOW.
so..she takes us up.

when we get up there they tell michael the kids cant come back & ask him if someone is coming..he tells them my mom is & should be there any minute..so they tell him to wait in the waiting room & come buzz at the door to come back when she gets there.
so he takes the girls to waiting & she takes me back.

its appropriately 7:30 when she wheels me in my room.
2 nurses where in there & they hand me a gown & tell me to go put it on & pee.
i go to the bathroom & pee & my water pops.
i get my gown on..walk out the bathroom. climb in bed & tell them it broke, & that i have fast deliveries & that I had alot of pressure down there like i needed to poop.
so she checks me & i say "how far?" she says im complete.
well..they start their running & setting up. begging me not to push & me telling them I cant help it..shes coming out.

its all a big painful blur.. but i remember the nurse asking me to give her a second to get her gloves on & another telling me she was the baby nurse & then I felt her coming out.
the one nurse closest to me was asking me to push slower cause she didnt want me to rip..so i was trying..
then just a few seconds later she got in my face & told me to PUSH HARD & get her out NOW.
so i did ..
I looked around my leg & can see her laying there & them suctioning her & shes blue.
they wisked her over to the baby warmer things & where beating on her & using a respirator..
i was so scared & kept asking was she ok.. I could see she was still very blue & her arm moved very slow
FINALLY.. i heard a little cry & then another better one & they where telling me she was ok.

she had had the cord wrapped around her neck & then back around her torso..so when she was coming out it got pulled tighter & squeezed.

her color & condition improved very fast after that first breathe ..
michael came in about 5 mins after her birth..she was just being wrapped in a blanket as he was coming in.
they handed her to me..but i still hadent delivered the placenta , so was still contracting (although no where near as painful) so i just looked at her quickly, saw she was ok & told him to take her.

my doc came in right after that & we delivered the placenta & got my tears stitched up. tortured me by pushing on my stomach to push some clots out &
then they got me cleaned up & my mom,the girls,my sil & niece where able to come in (they where all a few mins late..lol)


i felt good all day monday.. real good..esp after my shower.

my tubal was at 1:00 tuesday afternoon..
Michael kept the baby in the room while i was gone..i didnt want her in the nursery that long..she already was not content to lay in the little bassinet.


i dont remember anything but them telling me to breathe the oxygen & then next thing i knew they where pushing me to recovery. i didnt feel sick at all..or even a sore throat from the tube.. no effects of the anesthesia at all, which is great that was what i was most afraid of..id never been put under..
i was in recovery 30 mins & then they took me back to my room.
i was only gone 2 hours
i was pretty sore tuesday & wensday..but feeling great today!

my girls are IN LOVE with their baby sister..they constantly want to hold & help with her.
Today Kinley wanted to hold her & i told her i had to change her diaper..she told me SHE was changing her & she grabbed a diaper.the wipes & then she went to buisness.she pulled her pants off..unbuttoned her onsie. opened the diaper.wiped her , got the new diaper & even had it in the right direction.but then couldnt figure out how to get it under Mia & said she needed help..lol it was soooooooo cute! i thought for sure she was about to do it all..shes such a little mommy!
im not using our cloth diapers yet..im too lazy.she poops every hour & disposable just seems easier at this point

nursing could not be going any better! Mia has done awesome.she latched on perfect the first time . my milk came in tuesday night & shes loving it!
engorgement set in yesterday & was awful this morning! I had to do a quick shower as soon as we woke & try to hand express so i could nurse her..
she wasent to happy waiting..but the girls sat outside the shower & talked to her & kept her from screaming

now i need to get to bed. kay has school tomorrow (i kept her home today) & i got 3 (!) to get dressed & going in the morning..wish me luck, im not a morning person!
post #2 of 14
Wow what a quick birth!! Congrats!
post #3 of 14
Wow! What an exciting birth story! It reminded me of having my dd - I remember too thinking "Oh my gosh, we have to HURRY!" on the way to the hospital; I gave birth to her 45 minutes after we got there. Good job keeping your cool - I know it's tough in that situation!
post #4 of 14
CONGRATULATIONS!!!

gerlassie
post #5 of 14
WOW! What a fast birth! That is amazing! I am glad you made it there on time. I should check my hospital procedures... would hate to be wandering around. Glad all went well!

HUGS HUGS
post #6 of 14
Wow, you had a fast and furious birth! I am glad Mia is here safely and that the tubal went so well for you. I will be thinking of you in the morning--I am about to have 3 to get up and going as well!

All the best to you and your sweet family!
post #7 of 14
Boy, was that a good read! I can't believe they had you go back downstairs at the hospital when there was no one there in the first place!
post #8 of 14
Congratulations! Sounds like this baby has the two best big sisters in the world- what sweetie pies! Enjoy you new family member
post #9 of 14
Wow! What a crazy ride mama! Great birth story though. I love the story of your LO helping with diaper changing. My youngest can't wait to help with "her baby"!
post #10 of 14
WOW, mama, that was quite a "ride". I'm thrilled to hear how well everything turned out. Good luck healing although it already sounds like you're doing great!

CONGRATS!!
post #11 of 14
Congrats, and welcome to little Mia

I can't belive how fast it was! And it's so sweet to hear how your daughters are so good with her already!

Congrats again!!
post #12 of 14
congrats!

also wanted to know... did they tell you not to breastfeed after the tubal? did you have to wait at all or discard any breastmilk before you could breastfeed? thanks
post #13 of 14
What a story! I'm exhausted just reading about it!

Congratulations on your new little one!
post #14 of 14
amazing, congrats!
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