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post #1 of 43
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Well, I know some of you have been dreading the idea of a V-day baby, but I decided to approach the holiday with the idea that there is no more pure manifestation of love than a baby, so why not today? Today could be downright perfect. And Hallmark will never again have dibs in my book if it becomes a Birth Day. Also, my funny friend pointed out that a crafty guy born 2/14 could use that fact to woo girls-- a natural born romantic of sorts.

All that said, I don't know who I have thumping around still, or when he or she might get around to showing up. And I trust you amazing women. I do. Otherwise I might think perhaps I will in fact be the FIRST person who does in fact give birth to at least a toddler.
But you are right that these babies are going to get here, as evidenced by all the amazing birth stories that pop up every day. The further I get from Monday's marathon of contractions that just pooped out, the more I realize there is just no telling when this baby will decide it is REALLY time. I am trying to get a little more positive and patient. Or at least not approach the world with the warmth and sensitivity of a wet, cornered badger, which has been my modus operandi for days. I realized I might be a bit too hormonal when the corner store was out of nutty buddy ice cream cones and I considered some sort of riot or firebomb as my first response...One could argue that they should somehow know better than to deprive a very very pregnant woman of her chosen dessert, but I suppose I could be a bit more forgiving. :
maybe....
post #2 of 43
I would LOVE a vday baby. that would mean I'd have her soon!!
post #3 of 43
38 weeks today! been having consistent low back pain for a few hours.... not really expecting anything, but it's a start.
post #4 of 43
I made a valiant effort at sleep. Lasted over an hour in bed, but these contractions are still coming every 5-10 minutes and now they are pretty intense. My water *may* have broken around 8:30pm, but there's so much pressure down there it's hard to tell if it's just urine. When I got up just now I leaked a bit and it was clear...

Timing the contrax now that I'm outta bed and if they start getting closer I'm going to make the call and go ahead and at least go in to see how far I'm dilated. I hate waking DH up to take me... wish we were doing a homebirth.

I definitely understand why girls end up at the hospital too soon and end up getting induced. Here's hoping I'm not one of them!
post #5 of 43
I've been an anti V-Day baby, but at this point having her born would be great, and also I'm not a fan of Valentines day, it's a little over the top for me, so having a child's birthday on it would make it so much more special. ANd really I'm about ready to have her.
post #6 of 43
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Originally Posted by Dea View Post
I've been an anti V-Day baby, but at this point having her born would be great, and also I'm not a fan of Valentines day, it's a little over the top for me, so having a child's birthday on it would make it so much more special. ANd really I'm about ready to have her.
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The first Valentines day that my husband and I were together, I told him that I was strongly opposed to doing anything. I HATE nothing more than the commercialized way that people are encouraged by our society to show their love for each other...so cliche and it means so much less when it's not spontaneous, IMO. Well, that year, Valentines day just happened to have fallen on the second Tuesday (of the second month). When I went to my car to go to work, there was an unwrapped bag of chocolates. On the chocolates were a note. I still have it, although I keep it at work or I'd quote it to you here. It said something like, "To my warm, sugary dream - Happy second Tuesday of the second month. I didn't want you to have chocolate envy at work today. I can't wait to hold you in my arms when you get home tonight. I love you." From there on out, we decided to have that day be a special reminder to take time for just the two of us no matter what life brings. SO, as you can imagine, I was more hoping for a baby born Tuesday than today. BUT, much like you Dea, I'll take her today, I'm just so darn excited to have her!!

This year, we were both too exhausted on Tuesday to "celebrate" but we did go for a nice dinner last night, after I treated myself to a massage. We just laughed and enjoyed ourselves so much, it was a much needed break from our normal routine. And I gave him the news......Friday is my last day of work. He was so excited, he was jumping off the walls. He's been pestering me to go on leave to enjoy the time I have before the baby comes. I may just have the best husband of all times.

So today, even though it's not quite 4am and I'm up with heartburn from our special dinner, and I'm still pregnant but dying to hold my little one in my arms, I'm going to try to remember that she will come. She'll be born on the day she choses, when my body and my baby is ready.

So glad you mamas are still here with me!
post #7 of 43
well, unless i have a bizarrely sudden and quick labor, i won't have a v-day baby. BUT, as I was (again) expressing my insistence that she not be born today, my friend pointed out that it might, in fact, be a good birthday to have. (my objection was always that if you were, say, 16 and single on valentines, it would be a double crap day.) she said that if valentines day were your birthday, at least there would always be *something* happening on that day, a reason to celebrate, even if you were single.
post #8 of 43
I love Valentine's Day, and I wanted dd #2 to be a Valentine baby but she was born on 2-7-04. I have hopes for this one to be my Valentine!

I am 41 +2, had regular contractions last night through dinner, getting the girls to bed, hanging out with DH. They were irregular through the middle of the night and I don't know how they are this morning since I haven't been up long enough.

I am calling the mw this am for some HELP! So far I have tried sex and pressure points to kick these contractions over to active labor. The sex worked to make my cervix very soft, hooray, but I am needing something else. In a big way. I have been doing this for a stinkin month.
post #9 of 43
i have a friend my age who was born on v-day and she likes it just fine!

today, DH and I always go out to dinner at a mexican rest then watch the count of monte cristo. that's what we have been doing for the last 6 years of our marriage. we had a rough time being married back then for a little while but on v-day we decided to really commit to staying married. so, we call it d-day, the day we decided not to get divorced. it was a crazy time when both our dad died within 6 months due to cancer, DH lost his job after stressful times of travel with them, i got a promotion and then we moved. so, we celebrate being together through the tough stuff always!

i am 38 weeks tomorrow and so stoked about continuing to grow this babe inside!

yesterday, the meeting at the general assembly went really well. CPMs are not recognized in NC and we are trying to change that. It seemed to be really well received.
post #10 of 43
Jaimee, I totally agree with you about the forced commercial crap, etc. That was so sweet of your DH, though. I wish mine would surprise me like that sometimes.

I've sort of given up doing much for Valentine's Day. DH and I might go out to dinner in years previous, but it is getting harder to do that anyway. He is not a gift-y person and he rarely buys me things. Often, I will do something special for him and have nothing done for me in return. Which is ok, I am sort of used to it. But, it'd be nice every once in awhile. Like this V-day, I could really go for some nice chocolate, something I don't usually want. Anyhow, I hold no expectations...

I slept a little bit better last night. Everytime I did get up, though, I was aware of an increased amount of achiness in my pelvis. Maybe she is lower? I definitely feel more pre-labor-y than I had been feeling. I'm noticing it is a little harder to pick up DS today, too. Maybe this weekend? I'm seeing the midwives today, I'm almost tempted to ask them to strip my membranes, but I won't. I just feel rather uncomfortable now.
post #11 of 43
39w2d more bloody show.

Really wanted the baby on the 14th! The 14th is special to us (when DH and I got married, & when DS was born).. so still a possibility, but unless I go into labor soon, NOPE.

I want to take a walk but can't, streets adn sidewalks are ICE... and chasing DS on ice while 9 months preggo... can't be good!
post #12 of 43
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Originally Posted by anjanetteopal View Post
I made a valiant effort at sleep. Lasted over an hour in bed, but these contractions are still coming every 5-10 minutes and now they are pretty intense. My water *may* have broken around 8:30pm, but there's so much pressure down there it's hard to tell if it's just urine. When I got up just now I leaked a bit and it was clear...

Timing the contrax now that I'm outta bed and if they start getting closer I'm going to make the call and go ahead and at least go in to see how far I'm dilated. I hate waking DH up to take me... wish we were doing a homebirth.

I definitely understand why girls end up at the hospital too soon and end up getting induced. Here's hoping I'm not one of them!
Oooooh, don't go in too soon!!! And don't tell them when you're water broke if you are comfortable going over 24 hours. In fact, if you think you're water broke, don't let them check you at all! That introduces the bacteria that can cause the infections they are worried about. If you are having contractions, I would just stay home. And if you are leaking clear fluid, it's a pretty positive sign you're water has broken! The longer you wait to go the better.
post #13 of 43
38wk 6days

DH sent me a happy v-day text message. We've only celebrated the holiday once in our 4 yrs together- it's not really our thing AND we got married Feb 16 so I am really looking forward to our 1 year anniversary- If our baby comes Sat that would be pretty awesome but I am not feeling anything to make me think that baby is coming... I might be a 41 weeker.

I woke up with a weird chest thing- like a cough but no real mucous- i've coughed up a little bit but it was clear- same thing blew the nose but it's clear, my voice sounds all scratchy and I'm achy way down my neck by my chest when i talk or cough.

Also the pain I had down in my pelvic area is feeling much better- I guess my body was stretching to get this baby out? I definitely feel the waddle these days

Hope whoever wants a v-day baby gets their wish-

Happy Valentine's Day Mommas

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Originally Posted by mom2anna View Post
I love Valentine's Day, and I wanted dd #2 to be a Valentine baby but she was born on 2-7-04. I have hopes for this one to be my Valentine!

I am 41 +2, had regular contractions last night through dinner, getting the girls to bed, hanging out with DH. They were irregular through the middle of the night and I don't know how they are this morning since I haven't been up long enough.

I am calling the mw this am for some HELP! So far I have tried sex and pressure points to kick these contractions over to active labor. The sex worked to make my cervix very soft, hooray, but I am needing something else. In a big way. I have been doing this for a stinkin month.
Hang in there Momma! Hope the mw has something good to get you going- you are being such a trooper!
post #14 of 43
I love all the valentine's stories! Especially the "happy second tuesday of the second month" one!

EDD here! Never thought I'd see this day. So this is what 40 weeks looks like.

FLU update: this is day #4, and the first day that I see a small hint of recovery coming. On the bright side, I feel the teeniest bit better. My mom is coming over at 10 to watch DS, so knowing I get a break in 2 hours might be part of it.
On the worrysome side, my ctx took almost a complete haitus for days 1,2,&3 of the flu, but returned sometime last night. I am not yet sure that I could handle labor and delivery (I guess I could if I had no other choice, technically) at this point, I'm still pretty sick, so I'm hoping the ctx DON'T DO ANYTHING!!!
It's so strange to (after having been so ready at 38 and 39 weeks) to now be praying every day for NO BABY for a while. (best case scenario would be LATE next week so i can start to fully recover!)
post #15 of 43
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EDD here! Never thought I'd see this day. So this is what 40 weeks looks like. FLU update: this is day #4, and the first day that I see a small hint of recovery coming. On the bright side, I feel the teeniest bit better. My mom is coming over at 10 to watch DS, so knowing I get a break in 2 hours might be part of it.
congrats on 40 weeks, mama! i am with you (but only 38 tomorrow) on the whole, wow, this is what the last month is like. hope that you get lots of rest that will heal and strengthen your body for labor...for next week, perhaps! once you are fully recovered!
post #16 of 43
Today just might be my son's day! DP and I did the deed around midnight to ring in Valentine's day and from midnight to 5am I had very painful contractions that I was unable to sleep through that have went from about 9 mins apart to now 4 mins apart, plus I've had bloody show this morning!

We are filling up the birth pool now....I'm 38w2d
post #17 of 43
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Originally Posted by APMomOfKimmyN-Maya View Post
Today just might be my son's day! DP and I did the deed around midnight to ring in Valentine's day and from midnight to 5am I had very painful contractions that I was unable to sleep through that have went from about 9 mins apart to now 4 mins apart, plus I've had bloody show this morning! We are filling up the birth pool now....I'm 38w2d
fabulous, apmom!!! keep us posted if you can but we'll be thinking of you. DTD helped ezra come last time, for sure! that's why DH is totally cut off from it right now. poor guy!
post #18 of 43
WOOHOO!!!! I'm 38 weeks today! I'm so excited. And suddenly scared LOL. I really need to be practicing my hypnobabies but it's hard home alone with both kids, and DS is sick so I can't send them to a friend's for 45 minutes. Oh well. I know it will all be fine. I just can't believe we're actually going to have another person in the house soon. It's so surreal. It totally hasn't hit me that I'm going to have a baby. Don't you think I should know by now????

I totally forgot it was V-day today, and didn't have treats out for the kids this morning. Bad Mama!!!!! I used to love waking up to a red heart of candy on my nightstand. But in my defense I was going to go out yesterday but couldn't bc of DS's fever...DH is away so no V-day special fun for us. He does want to take me to a show sometime next week when he gets back. But I've been afraid to buy tickets in case the baby comes first LOL....that's a lot of money if you don't find someone to buy them from you!

Emily, I'm glad you are starting to feel better, even a little.
post #19 of 43
We aren't big on V-day either, it is over commercialized. HOWEVER, , DH wished me a Happy V-day this morning and called me his valentine girl. I said WHAT? What do you want from me? He was just being cute, which is not normal for him! He's been in such a good mood the last two days, it seems like everyone on in the house has had a mood shift, be it whiney/clingy/goofy/happy, it's a sign I think! Impending arrival of newest member of the family!!!!! EEK, 38.5 today!!!!

anjanetteopal, WAIT STOP HOLD ON!!!! Don't go yet. I totally agree with Miss Amy, if you go in you could end up a statistic!!!! No matter how far you are dialated, it is no indication of how soon your baby will be here, even if you are 10 cm fully effaced! But I do hope you have your baby today!!!!

APMomOfKimmyN-Maya, sounds like you are going to have your baby today!!!

I woke up every stinking hour last night. So you'd think a nap would be in order this A.M., but I'm off to Trader Joe's, time to start my baking and cooking for the coming weeks, weehoo!
post #20 of 43
i'm 39wks today...been having contractions for about 12hrs but weak and irregular. story of my life...
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