we are officially....

[ellymay]

DONE LOL I am sooooo relieved I really thought dh was gonna back out of getting a V done but he didn't! He had it done Friday so it is DONE well we still have to take specimins in at 15 and 25 ejaculations but thats fine w/ me LOL I am just so excited to not have to worry about it ever again LOL

[Jezzy]

Brave DH!!! I don't think that mine would do that!! I am not ready for that though either but I only have 3 children I hope it wasn't to bad for your DH!

[ellymay]

He was VERY VERY nervous about it and embarrased about them looking at him down there and such but he said it wasn't a big deal at all the only bad thing is he has a vericrose vein in his balls LOL on the left hand side and he said that side is very very sore but the other side isnt' at all but the doc told him that that one side was going to be more difficult to do and he said he had to do mroe to that side than the other side but other than tha the is fine though it makes him mad that he can't pick up anything over 10lbs for 7 days so he has to be off work which makes him mad but oh well he did it and that is all htat matters LOL. We are def done w/ 5 kids yeah I don't want anymore as much as i love being preggo and giving birth I don't wanna be fat anymore and I just want to enjoy my bf'ding for the next couple years and then get the ball on a roll and loose this weight and be back in shape before I am 30 LOL I have it all planned otu LMBO

[flapjack]

Hah. I'm counting the days til I can rejoin slimming world and have a waistline and huge working boobies Then again I'm already 30, and it won't wait till 40...

[Mama2-4]

Good for you! I am really trying to get to the place of being done having babies. I am almost 37 and this is our 4th baby....but I still feel deep down that I want to have one more. DH is totally against any more children and it makes me soooo sad to think we are done with this stage of our lives....I am not ready to move out of the reproductive years.... I know financially it makes sense to stop now, but I still have a yearning for more kidos....I tease him that we will have a change of life baby oneday!

[vegemamato]

Congrats to you, mama! My partner wanted a v but I broke down in tears when he brought it up (sometime near the end of my pregnancy). He realized how much I want more (we have three now) and agreed to leave a tiny window open (though he still doesn't *want* another). He's about to go through law school (yay!) so it definetly doesn't make sense for a while but still.. I'm only 26.. And want to know the funny thing? My babe is 1 week old and I'm already missing being pregnant and thinking about names and such Anyone else as hormonal/ridiculous as me? haha...

Glad that you two came to a decision though and are both happy with the outcome! 5 is a lot..

Sara

Partner to Tim and Mama to Katie(4/2/01), Sophia10/24/04) and Soren:2/17/08)

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[sewingmomma]

We are done
I feel a sense of beign done finally We jsut had #5 Our 4th was suppose to be our last but we had seperated and when we got together again i got pregnant lol
Anyway we are offically done I am either gettign an iud or a tubal probably

[ellymay]

Yeah our last one was supposed to be our last LOL but I really wanted another and hten dh did to but this time I have absolutly NO desire to have anymore and neither does dh so it was a good thing for both of us but I totally know how it is to not feel done at all even though you know you shouldn't have any more.

[Nature]

I know my dh won't ever get a V, and I'm okay with that. This was our fourth, but I know that we aren't done yet.

[eilonwy]

We're done, too. Four is enough. There's a small part of me that still wants a nice round dozen, and another even smaller part that thinks, "If those Dugger folks get to have sixteen kids, why the hell can't I?" but then the rational, sane part wakes up and beats those smaller parts into submission. I'm looking forward to having my body back. I intend to find my waist by the time I'm 35. I can't brng myself to permanently compromise my fertility because things may change in the future, but I'm pretty cool with the idea of moving out of the babymaking stage and into the childraising stage. I like the idea of having a youngest child, of seeing an 'end' to things, you know?

[flapjack]

: That's pretty much where I am, except given my history of contraceptive failure it may HAVE to be surgery for us.

[ellymay]

Originally Posted by flapjack

: That's pretty much where I am, except given my history of contraceptive failure it may HAVE to be surgery for us.

yup same here except our contraceptive failure is just being too lazy to use any and of course the fun times of sever baby fever that seems to take over every sane thinking part of your brain LMBO