I had posted this elsewhere and someone recommended trying here.
So, I see people refer to 2nd, 3rd, and 4th degree tears during childbirth. I did have an episiotomy, but I think I tore also. My doc didn't give me any classification, and I know it doesn't really matter, I'm just curious. I did try looking it up, but I wasn't able to figure it out. So are the key indicators for deciding what it was? Or is it possible to have a major episiotomy and there be no natural tear at all?
Part of what makes me think I tore badly:
I had between 20 and 30 stitches. Everyone I know that had an episiotomy had 3-5 stitches.
It took months!!!! to heal. At my 6 week check, I was still sore and it was over 6 mos. before I didn't want to cry attempting to DTD (DH was nice, we took our sweet time, just so he doesn't look like a jerk)
I had a lot of swelling and it was several weeks before I could climb in/out of bed w/o a step stool
I thought the long healing and the lots of swelling were normal, but the more I read here different ppl's stories, it sounds like there are many women that don't have that?? I didn't understand that anyone could be capable of DTD at 4-6 weeks pp, much less want to, based on my experience, but again, starting to think that may not be standard.
In case you are pg and reading-it was tough but I would do it again in an instant! I didn't have an epidural, but I did have an IV pain med that lasted 45 min and wore off 4-5 hours before birth. If I could do it again, I would have skipped the IV rather than opt for the epi, even knowing what I do now, so don't let me scare you!
ETA: From a post on my other thread, it wasn't a 4th degree tear! Wow!
So, I see people refer to 2nd, 3rd, and 4th degree tears during childbirth. I did have an episiotomy, but I think I tore also. My doc didn't give me any classification, and I know it doesn't really matter, I'm just curious. I did try looking it up, but I wasn't able to figure it out. So are the key indicators for deciding what it was? Or is it possible to have a major episiotomy and there be no natural tear at all?
Part of what makes me think I tore badly:
I had between 20 and 30 stitches. Everyone I know that had an episiotomy had 3-5 stitches.
It took months!!!! to heal. At my 6 week check, I was still sore and it was over 6 mos. before I didn't want to cry attempting to DTD (DH was nice, we took our sweet time, just so he doesn't look like a jerk)
I had a lot of swelling and it was several weeks before I could climb in/out of bed w/o a step stool
I thought the long healing and the lots of swelling were normal, but the more I read here different ppl's stories, it sounds like there are many women that don't have that?? I didn't understand that anyone could be capable of DTD at 4-6 weeks pp, much less want to, based on my experience, but again, starting to think that may not be standard.
In case you are pg and reading-it was tough but I would do it again in an instant! I didn't have an epidural, but I did have an IV pain med that lasted 45 min and wore off 4-5 hours before birth. If I could do it again, I would have skipped the IV rather than opt for the epi, even knowing what I do now, so don't let me scare you!
ETA: From a post on my other thread, it wasn't a 4th degree tear! Wow!








