One more update -
I saw the baby and all is well..and i found out that SHE NEVER EVEN GOT THE E-MAIL! I am so sad, i should have called her. I sent it on a friday and her c-section was monday and she just didnt check her e-mail.
Well her OB checked her dialation at 38 weeks and she wasnt dialated. Her OB said that her pelvis was too small and the baby was too big and that she would probubly just end up needed a c-section and that labor and a c-section would be too tramatic for the baby.
Anyway, her epidural didnt work and she was put out under general
Her partner couldnt even be in there, so neither of them saw the baby be born.
Of course she kept saying that she was so greatful that the baby is healthy and that she is ok.
Baby is breastfeeding great, and i spent a lot of time helping her learn to nurse.
She didnt express any dissapointment over the delivery, but i'm not sure if that will last. I'm sad for her, for what she lost and for what she doesnt even realize she lost.