My son was breech. Because of this and his large size (10lbs 4.5oz) and him being my first pregnancy - it ended in a section. I was very scared. I pictured him getting stuck and dying. The things I was told about breech births did not help with this imagine in my mind and is what led to the section. However, as many of you on here can guess - its still hard for me to come to terms with that. I did not want a section. I am still not happy about the section. It feels like a loss to me. The loss of something I had a right to. Those who have gone through childbirth and cant understand this tell me I am lucky I have not had to go through contractions and labour, etc... But I dont feel that. I feel like something was taken from me that I had a right to and am dealing with the loss of that. I want to feel a contraction. I want to feel what its like for the urge to push. I want that. I want to become a mother through that I have lost.
I do not want to be told I was wrong or really that I was right in the final decision that was made. That is all past us. Because my son is here now and healthy and fine and we make a great family. But I do want to filter through what is fact and what is fiction regarding breech births. I want to try and get my head around it. If I can make the horrible image of my son getting stuck and dying out of my head that will be a good thing. Even just thinking about what could have been different regarding my sons birth might help as well. And I know subsequent breech births are very rare - but its also a way I can help myself move on when its time for us to TTC. I feel if I know the facts from the fiction I can be more confident and better prepared and positive next time around!
My son was complete breech.
So lets talk breech births. Lets talk fact and lets talk fiction! Will a baby get stuck and really die? Did you deliver breech? How was it? Would you do it again?
I do not want to be told I was wrong or really that I was right in the final decision that was made. That is all past us. Because my son is here now and healthy and fine and we make a great family. But I do want to filter through what is fact and what is fiction regarding breech births. I want to try and get my head around it. If I can make the horrible image of my son getting stuck and dying out of my head that will be a good thing. Even just thinking about what could have been different regarding my sons birth might help as well. And I know subsequent breech births are very rare - but its also a way I can help myself move on when its time for us to TTC. I feel if I know the facts from the fiction I can be more confident and better prepared and positive next time around!

My son was complete breech.
So lets talk breech births. Lets talk fact and lets talk fiction! Will a baby get stuck and really die? Did you deliver breech? How was it? Would you do it again?












