I also wantd to comment on the IV "just in case". One of my favorite pieces of reading is a list of "things that make you go huh" written by a doula.
10. You need an IV in labor…just in case something goes wrong, we MUST have access to your vein!
Rather than question this statement, I’m simply going to relay what happened with some students I taught a childbirth series to many years ago. He (the expectant father) happened to be an EMT-Paramedic. This couple was doing a hospital tour so that they could become familiar with the hospital they intended to have their baby in. The nurse showed them the triage area, then showed them the labor and delivery rooms, explained that this is when they would get their IV…
The EMT dad said, "Umm, what if we don’t want an IV?"
Nurse replied, "It’s standard…what if something goes wrong? We must have access to your vein and what if it takes a while to get the IV started? It can be difficult sometimes to get it started…what if we can’t get it started and we’re trying to get an IV in while your baby is having problems??"
The EMT dad looked her straight in the eye and said, "Are you telling me that I can start an IV in the field, at night, in the rain, inside a vehicle that has been flipped over on a patient who is critical and bleeding out…and you are concerned about starting an IV on my healthy wife in your brightly lit hospital??? That frightens me."
Hee hee. I’ll just let that story sit with you for a while.