Dtd - Page 4

[smokeylo]

Originally Posted by PlayaMama

i was considering the mirena rather than the paraguard (copper) but i heard lots of negative stories.

our new trick is to let our ds play in the backyard with my dad (who lives with us), wear the baby in a sling until she's asleep, and QUICKLY do it! luckily, lots of flirting before hand makes the quickly part not so quick.

Most of the bad stories I've heard about the mirena were from women who haven't had kids. I've looked into it and think it's a pretty good gamble (at least for me) over the copper IUD because I've heard bleeding is a lot heavier which I'm not interested in . I'll give it a shot and hope that it works. We just need to cover this time between dd and the next kiddo and then dh will get the snip!

We want to have sex so bad! I can feel my stitches still and don't want to do anything until those are gone. Boo. Robin has started sleeping fairly well in the bouncy seat so I'm hoping that by the time I'm/we're ready, she will be ok in that or a swing for awhile. DH is going nuts waiting for the love!

[eilonwy]

Originally Posted by the elyse

i have a good friend that was using spermicide, a diaphragm, and a condom... still got the bfp.

This is actually a fairly common rookie mistake. "Three methods are better than one!" sounds entirely reasonable, until you think about what's actually physically involved... then you'll understand why condom + diaphragm = higher risk of pregnancy than either alone. Why? Rubber rubbing against rubber! Try it yourself with a pair of gloves, some water-based lube and some enthusiasm. It's a heck of a lot easier to make a hole wearing two gloves than it is wearing only one.

[RasJi7]

Originally Posted by applecore

I am petrified to dtd now. I just felt inside my vagina, and apparently my uterus has gotten in on the prolapse. I can feel my cervix a few inches in. I can't imagine how dtd is even going to be possible at this point. Things just keep seeming more dismal the more I find out about my situation. I made an appointment with an OBGYN that specializes in pelvic organ prolapse, but I'm not feeling very hopeful at the moment.

This is the email from an online friend of mine from the craigslist forums- she went through something similar although ithink much more severe than yours. SHe is a wonderful, honest and sweet person and I think she would be happy to talk to you about what you are going through i hvane't seen her online in a awhile so hope her anon email works for you

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BIG BIG HUGS to you!