Names are seriously sucking over here... at least every second day I ask about them...
Here is where we got today with the convo.
DD has her first name "B" and then her first middle name "M" and then because we weren't married and a little bit I wanted that security until we were she had my maiden name "M" and his last name "B" as two seperate (not hypenated) last names... So she looks like this "B""M""M""B". Our goal was always to put my maiden name into the second middle spot once we were married. We are now but noone can really answer my question on how to do it at vital statistics... they all give me different conflicting answers.
DH said at first he wanted two middle names for his children... then he took that back... But he has two middles, our DD will/has two middles and I've considered putting my maiden as a second middle as well.
Now we are onto this child. We've come to the conclusion (I was for and he was against) that they were all going to have two middles now as to not feel left out.. But we didn't know whether we should put my maiden as the second middle for all the children.... *sigh* naming is just too hard.
So what we HAVE decided is NO we are not going to put the second middle as my maiden, YES they all will have two middles and YES the second middle of each child will be a cherished family name.
We aren't really discussing names even though on here I know it wouldn't be as big of a deal but I still don't want to hear the I don't like that... lol I'll let it be "behind my back" after the child is born. (this is how hubby's aunts described it....
We have a pretty good possibility for our girl first name and we KNOW what her second middle will be... the first middle will be something we both like and that flows well
For the boy we have NO CLUE on the first name but pretty much have both the middle names picked out.
Ok that was long and winded... Oh and we aren't using the boy "first" name from last time (the middles are from last time) only because it's populated into a huge girls name and our families and friends gave us so much grief over it. I still guiltly love it and DH didn't when DD was born and now he does like it too but alas we decided we won't use it unless there really is NO OTHER OPTION... and well we can come up with a couple others we kinda like.