i've got my 36 week appointment tomorrow - though technically i'm not 36 weeks till Sunday, based on LMP. We did have one u/s and it actually puts me at 36 weeks tomorrow. i wasn't charting the month i got pg (which is how i *got* pg... sigh) but the conception date i actually thought was most likely is nearly a week past my due date, and there's been no indication that my due date is off in that direction, and i want my homebirth, so i'm happy to take the earliest dates they'll give me as DD was a little early and DS was only 4 days late. plus, since we're unsure, i know my m/w will gladly give me a little leeway if i am to go late.
i haven't checked my own cervix, and my m/w is pretty hands-off so unless i begged her to check me (which i can live without) it's not likely to happen tomorrow. those checks always make me anxious for some reason - if there is progress then you're thinking it's going to happen really soon and get frustrated if it doesn't, if there's no progress you get discouraged thinking it'll be forever till the baby comes. Or i guess i should say *i* rather than *you* since that's what i mean

i don't like getting checked in labor either - though i will probably ask her to check me at least once to see where baby's head is, because DS got his head quite stuck and ended up with a big 'ole squishy lump on his his head (aka subdermal hematoma), and it probably added close to 2 hours to my labor i'd guess, since that's about how long it took to shake him loose. once his head popped into place he literally started crowning and was born less than 15 minutes later.
i've been a *lot* more nesty this week, which means i've been running around a lot more, so the BH have picked up a lot. they're uncomfortable but not unbearable. this kid definitely is getting lower, but no way would i say s/he's dropped. by the end of the day gravity has done its job and baby is always way lower than where s/he started that morning, so hopefully at some point baby will just stay like that. not that i love that bowling ball between the legs feeling, but it does usually mean progress in the right direction!
i really want this baby to wait at least another week and a half because we're supposed to steam clean the carpets this weekend, and the weekend after my mom is coming to help me clean and to cook up a bunch of stuff for the freezer and help me manage the kids while i make a big run at Costco. So baby has to stay in till i'm done with all that. Then s/he is welcome to come any time. in fact, s/he's welcome to come on Sunday of that weekend once we're done with all our chores - that way my mom will already be here, DH won't be an hour away at work, DD won't be at school. so all we'll need is the m/w! i'm really hoping baby will be born on a weekend, and since the due date is a sunday (and that's the full moon) there's hope that i might just get my wish!