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post #1 of 10
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Around 5:30/ish I realizedI'd been having very crampy, close together contractions. DH and I timed them for a while, and decided that tonight would be the night. A-gain, we called the grandparents to pick up DDs 1&2, set up the birth pool, turned off the phone ringer, set up birthing supplies, throw chux pads over every surface I may fancy to labor/birth on, put birthing soundtrack in stereo (we are so nerdy like that) etc.
Contractions were going about 3/4 minutes apart for about two-three hours, we took a walk...I decided it might be a long night and sitting around just timing ctrx would drive me nuts, so we put in a movie. Aways into the movie I realize the ctrx are getting spaced apart...by the end of the movie (Philadelphia) I am having NO ctrx. It's 11 PM. We go for another walk...Nada.
I have lost trust in my body. It's not like I am birthing a child for the first time, dammit!
Argh!!!:
post #2 of 10
Sorry. I had one night of prelabor too that kept me from sleeping. I bet that bout helped prepare your cervix though!
post #3 of 10
I tell myself that even though it's not labor, it is prepping me for labor, but yeah it makes long days/nights.
post #4 of 10
argh. so frustrating! i've had a few nights with pretty crampy ctx that i start to get excited about, but then i tell myself i better wait and see. the night before last i was really sure i would have the baby the next day. i'd never felt so certain and i had about 6 hours of crampy ctx.

welp, i'm still here and i'm still preggo.
post #5 of 10
I hear you--it sucks so bad. The worst thing I hated about my false labor was having to tell everyone that it was a no go. But it's true, it's not for nothing (blah, blah, blah!) I know that's little consolation! I heard it for my 5 days of false labor.
post #6 of 10
I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! It is so frustrating and such a huge letdown!!! I don't even tell anyone when it starts now... especially DH. Bless his heart, he is so anxious to meet his one and only baby. His heart to heart talks with her each night are so sweet and so moving. I just don't tell him now when false labor starts then he doesn't feel the letdown when it stops...
post #7 of 10
I hear ya, I was having contractions all night last night, 5 minutes apart but they never got stronger or closer. Now I'm tired and nothing is happening.
post #8 of 10
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I'm keeping my fingers crossed that tonight's full moon will give us all a little extra something:. Is there validity to the notion that boy babies like to hang around the womb a bit longer than girls? I've never made it to 40 weeks till this one, and we did not want to find out the gender. My other two are girls, born @ 37 and 39 weeks. Although a boy would be way cool, I aint too keen on being preggers for 41 weeks, let alone another day. I'm going nuts here.
post #9 of 10
i hear ya. i told dh don't worry unless i am seriously moaning. i am 40 + 1 and know from ds #2 this could go on for 2 more weeks!
post #10 of 10
I had 2 days of that before she finally decided to come. Hope it's soon mama (and all 3 of my girls were at least 7 days overdue!)
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