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Okay. So we're not very structured.  

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My son is 10. He entered kindergarten in an arts-based charter school just before he turned 5 (I had intended to wait but he was very, very ready). He attended that school until midway through 3rd grade when we moved. I moved him into a Montessori-based charter school in the same district. That school was, well, pretty awful. So I took him out and put him into the homeschool charter in the same district. That was last year.

At the time when I took him out, he was in 4th grade but he was not doing well in math and they wanted to put him back into 3rd. I explained this to the homeschool charter teacher and she said that's fine, and she brought both 3rd and 4th grade math books.

I had always felt strongly that the math problems were school-related, that he didn't 'have trouble' as much as it was a reflection of a lot of issues at that school.

As part of the homeschool charter program, we had to log at least four hours of work per day, five days per week. They were flexible in that they counted things like caring for a pet or helping cook dinner as school work.

Starting at the beginning of this year (5th grade), we have been homeschooling on our own, not registered with anyone.

I feel insecure in that we lack a certain amount of structure. I write out plans for the whole week, but then we, um, don't really follow them.

But he is doing great. He reads at an adult level, he is doing very well in Saxon 7/6 and when he does work on math lessons that are geared toward 5th grade he comments on how very easy it is. He's amazing with his geography, great with science. He writes wonderful, detailed stories. Etc.

He needs some work on spelling and handwriting though.

Do I really need to sit him down for four hours five days a week? When he doesn't do four hours I get pretty anxious. I'm terrified that he's going to fall behind and be basically a fourth grade dropout. But really, I don't think it has to be that way. Some days he gets up and just sits down and works for 4 or 5 hours but other days I have to not just remind him but really make him do it.
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4 hours 5 days a week is more than most highly structured hsers I know spend on school at that age. If what you're doing is working for you, then it's working and don't worry
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Wow - four hours seems a lot. I don't think we've ever done four hours in a day. Are you counting life learning in that four, or just schoolish stuff, paper and pencil? I think aiming for 2 hours of reading/paperwork and translating life into school terms for another 2 sounds more reasonable, but still maybe stressful.

If you're not reporting to the charter anymore, though, it doesn't really need to be counted - if you see him thriving, productive, happy, then trust you know him best, don't get bogged down in the accounting.
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I think that you are doing great. It would be difficult to fill up 4 hr/day 5 days/week of structured learning and be able to keep it up and still like each other. Homeschooling dpoesn't take as long as school. You write up a schedule and even though you don't follow it exactly, it does give you an idea of what you could be doing if you needed to figure out what to do. As long as your son is progressing well, that is what is important. He is also probably doing a lot more "unstructured" learning than his scooled peers as well.
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Do I really need to sit him down for four hours five days a week?
No. Gee, that was easy, got any harder questions?

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I'm terrified that he's going to fall behind and be basically a fourth grade dropout. But really, I don't think it has to be that way.
Maybe the first thing you should do is remind yourself that it isn't that way?
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Wow - four hours seems a lot. I don't think we've ever done four hours in a day. Are you counting life learning in that four, or just schoolish stuff, paper and pencil? I think aiming for 2 hours of reading/paperwork and translating life into school terms for another 2 sounds more reasonable, but still maybe stressful.

If you're not reporting to the charter anymore, though, it doesn't really need to be counted - if you see him thriving, productive, happy, then trust you know him best, don't get bogged down in the accounting.
I agree with everything said! My son ends up doing about 3 hours per day.

With that, I am a perfectionist and very structured. I like to have something on print or on the computer in front of me to look at his progress. Plus, in our state we have to keep track of attendance and curriculum. So I bought a home school database program that I enter my child's school information on. I put whatever lessons he finishes down by the day and keep track of his holidays/days of no school and the quarters. It even prints out a report card/progress report if we ever need one. It also tracks his hours of actual school work entered and I can look at that to see the expected date for his last day of school (or when he reaches the required 180 days). I love it! I've used it since he was in kindergarten.
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