*Did you tell them about people you liked?
Me and my mom would talk about this stuff pretty often. She would actually be like, "You know that kid in your band that plays the drums, he's pretty cute, huh!"
She usually really liked the boys that I dated and would ask me about them/ talk to their parents/ etc.
*Did you tell them about your first kiss?
I would have liked to talk to her about it but she was a crazy lunatic about that stuff and would have yelled at me even though she didn't think it was wrong. It was just something you don't ever talk to anyone about, I guess.
I talked to my Grandmother about it instead.
*Did you tell them about your first time?
Again, I really wanted to but she was a crazy lunatic about that kind of thing. I was 17 when I HAD to tell her about it because a condom broke and I was terrified, it was not a pretty discussion.
I remember her saying "Well could you even accomplish anything?" (By which she meant did he even ejaculate), and I was like "What, you don't think I'm sexy enough?" And she went BALLISTIC! I thought it was pretty funny.
She still thinks that was my first time, and doesn't know I had been having sex for a solid year before that (with a boyfriend of a very long time, who she liked very much).
*Did you feel comfortable discussing emotional aspect of your relationships at that age?
Never, and not even now. My Mom is cool with shallow conversation but as soon as things get touchy-feely she starts with the yelling and the hysterics. I would have loved to talk to her but she was a huge **** about those things.
So, I will say in conclusion, that I would have talked about those things but my Mom's reactions were always too violent and out of nowhere.
