Dh and I had our monthly budget meeting the other night. Basically when he compliments me on my utter awesomeness for saving money and attacking debt

He said I have really come a long way from 7 years ago when we met.
And I really have!

I am an only child, soiled rotten, and I had that "Jaime see, Jaime WANT" syndrome

I used to be embarassed that my car was a 1999 and not "new", etc. Now I love my old Chevy and I take pride in the fact that I own it, it gets me from point A to point B, and at least I have a car, some people don't even have a car. So I am blessed

I also used to pay $20 a month for text messaging

: I sent so many texts that my phone company told me once "Ma'am, on your account, we stop tracking after you hit 3,000 for the month."

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I also used to go on these ridiculous $500 shopping sprees every 3 months

: Mainly, in my defense, funded by my Mother. But when she stopped working, she stopped shopping. DH was horrified because he thought I would still want to go on these shopping trips. And I do. But then I met mothering.com

And for some reason, I opened a thread about Dave Ramsey. He was having a $10 book sale. So I bought one. I read it in a weekend.
And I feel so different now. I don't have cable, no internet *Jaime being online is made possible by her Father who thinks it is unnatural not to have internet so he bought us dial up as a gift

* no cell phone *no texting, yikes*, no outrageous shopping trips, no "crap" that I HAD to have but then never used.
Now we get to be the freaks in the family, and I like it

I can't wait to be out of debt. I want one of those bumper stickers that says "Debt is normal, be weird!"

But it gets easier. I know now that what I
need and what I want are in two totally different catagories. And I am excited that our own future children, should we be lucky enough to have some, will not be as spoiled as I was growing up! I want my children to actually appreciate what they have and not have the "gimmies" like I used to have. I wonder sometimes how my DH even stayed with me, because he is so normal, so grounded as far as money goes, and I was always so selfish and wanted everything. It must have been my charm


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