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Letter to Hooter Hider  

post #1 of 69
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I just checked out the hooter hider product description + affidavits after seeing the product recommended here, and really the product literature just sucks. So I wrote a letter:

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Dear Bébé au Lait,

I was perusing the Hooter Hider product literature and came across this in the reasons to purchase this product:

"Even though Mom may be comfortable with nursing baby uncovered in public,
often male relatives, friends and co-workers find it a bit awkward."

This sentiment does nothing to normalize nursing in a culture with dreadfully poor breastfeeding rates. This type of language only furthers the notion that nursing is disgusting and inappropriate. While I realize that not every woman feels comfortable nursing in public and thus your product may be useful to some, encouraging women in the belief that they should cover up for modesty's sake is backwards and anti-feminist.

Breastfeeding is not something that only those who are willing to "go the extra mile" do or should do. Breastfeeding is not the choice of the elite. Breastfeeding is the norm for feeding human babies and should be treated thusly. It would behoove you to elucidate the reasons why women should practice exclusive and extended breastfeeding and why breastfeeding should be acceptable anywhere and anytime.

The World Health Organization notes that "this child-feeding ideal is to be achieved by creating an appropriate environment of awareness and support so that women can breastfeed in this manner." Further, "attainment of this goal requires, in many countries, the reinforcement of a 'breastfeeding culture' and its vigorous defence against incursions of a 'bottle-feeding culture.'" In what way does your product literature reinforce a "breastfeeding culture" when it includes the sentence, "Even though Mom may be comfortable with nursing baby uncovered in public, often male relatives, friends and co-workers find it a bit awkward?" I assert that it does not promote a breastfeeding culture. I believe that the suggestion that women should cover themselves to avoid inconveniencing others by making them feel "awkward" comes from an entrenchment in a bottle-feeding culture wherein people are divorced and dettached from the nature that feeds them.

It is my recommendation that you change your product literature to promote the act that you seek to aid, rather than condemn or merely suffer it.

Sincerely,
Anna Kiss
post #2 of 69
good for you. I always cringe a little when I see some mama draping a blanket over her baby. If the baby likes it that way, fine, but don't do it for other people's benefit. Like I see this at a mom's group I go to all the time. I mean, if you can't NIP at a mom's group, where can you??
post #3 of 69
Your letter is well thought out imo and to the point. Yes it's like this product is an apology or something. But hey here's something to cover those demon boobs because we know they are the work of satan. What also makes me angry is how selfish people are, other people's 'feelings' or inadequacies more like are more justifiable than a baby feeding as nature intended. They are trying to make us feel ashamed of our bodies as usual. The utter hypocrisy of women feeling they have to cover up to feed when all around us are images of boobs, weird. Control.
post #4 of 69
That is great. My friends mom just bought her one. She opened it at her shower. She loved it, everyone loved it, and I cringed.
post #5 of 69
You know, I have no problem with them or a blanket as long as it's what the MOM wants - not because she's doing it for the benefit of other people. I can't believe that's a part of their selling points. Grrrrr.
post #6 of 69
They never answered my letter. Maybe you'll have better luck!
post #7 of 69
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Originally Posted by ColoradoMama View Post
You know, I have no problem with them or a blanket as long as it's what the MOM wants - not because she's doing it for the benefit of other people. I can't believe that's a part of their selling points. Grrrrr.
Exactly.
post #8 of 69
Great letter. The title of the product alone is enough to make me cringe
post #9 of 69
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by annettemarie View Post
They never answered my letter. Maybe you'll have better luck!
Well, they said they'd get back to me:

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We have received your email and we will contact you with a response shortly!
So I have a lot of faith that it will work.
post #10 of 69
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Originally Posted by forthebest View Post
Your letter is well thought out imo and to the point. Yes it's like this product is an apology or something. But hey here's something to cover those demon boobs because we know they are the work of satan. What also makes me angry is how selfish people are, other people's 'feelings' or inadequacies more like are more justifiable than a baby feeding as nature intended. They are trying to make us feel ashamed of our bodies as usual. The utter hypocrisy of women feeling they have to cover up to feed when all around us are images of boobs, weird. Control.
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post #11 of 69
I have never understood them. I used a blanket not to cover my "hooters" but to hide my flabby abs and love handles. Plus living in new England makes for some chilly NIP. So the hooter hiders seem pointless. What baby would like it? Thanks for writing the letter.:
post #12 of 69

I came across Hooter Hiders when I was pregnant and was like, Huh? What would I want one of those for? Just today I was looking at their website and found myself equally disgusted with that quote you included in your letter!
post #13 of 69
I would much rather get a Bella Band for covering the midriff or wear a nursing top. The Hooter Hider is just another thing that takes up space in the diaper bag and it's probably a lot more expensive than a Bella Band. Plus you'll most likely need new clothes in the postpartum months anyhow, so why not spend your money on something you can use for a long time and even after you stop nursing instead of something only designed for nursing?
post #14 of 69
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Originally Posted by Ziggysmama View Post
The title of the product alone is enough to make me cringe
Me too:
post #15 of 69
I didn't see this thread . . . . see my new thread on this topic . . .guess I should have posted here.
post #16 of 69
Great letter! I agree they should change their literature and be more responsible in normalizing nursing. Though I do have to add with my ds #2 I was always hiding under a blanket those first few weeks (big time latching problems) It used to take my babe up to 15 minutes to latch on right! We would be at the crowded beach and my husband would be trying to hold a blanket up, but not make us hot, and I would be trying to insert my poor scabby nipple into baby's mouth! Whew thank god those days are over and ds is now 3 and nurses like a champ!!!!
post #17 of 69
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Originally Posted by 2M's Mom View Post
That is great. My friends mom just bought her one. She opened it at her shower. She loved it, everyone loved it, and I cringed.
Just remember that the most important thing is that she is planning to BF her baby. There shouldn't be anything wrong with her being excited about it as long as it's something that she wants.

I got a HH at my baby shower and was excited at the time to receive it. I used it for the first two months of DD's life and it made me feel comfortable when I was first learning to nurse. After she hit about 2.5 months I was comfortable enough with my nursing skills to NIP without a cover and I've never looked back.

ETA: I love the letter, BTW! I agree that no woman should feel obligated to cover up just because a male relative is uncomfortable.
post #18 of 69
I get the lactivist reason for not wanting these, but if they make a mom more comfortable in public and more likely to breastfeed, then I think there are a lot worse things.
post #19 of 69
If you look at Anna's letter, her issue is with the marketing angle--
"Even though Mom may be comfortable with nursing baby uncovered in public,
often male relatives, friends and co-workers find it a bit awkward."--and not with the existance of the product.
post #20 of 69
Gentle reminder - some of us have easily distractable babies who need dark, quiet nursing sessions.
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