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post #1 of 87
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So ... how are we all feeling, and where are we, in the waiting game??

I'm 31 1/2 weeks .... woo hoo! I'm still just as tired as ever ... back pain is the same, and now my pelvic bones are ACHING. I feel like there's a bowling ball pushing on the bones down there!!

We're still looking for a van .. this is DH's job, and he'd better get it done soon. This is his job, so I'm staying out of it.

Having a baby shower on Saturday ... woo hoo! I'm excited!!

Back to the doctor on Tues, for a growth scan, and visit with the OB. Next week is also Spring Break, which I'm feeling guilty over. I just don't have the energy to take DD#1 anywhere special. Next week is also DD#2's birthday .. but we are going to have her party later on in April, so we can have it outside at a park.


OK .... how are things going for ya'll??
post #2 of 87
Hi Dianna! I'm sorry you have aches & pains. Have you tried some yoga/stretching or swimming? I find that those help me. Are you still working in the ER? I can't imagine at 31+ weeks!

We're at 36 1/2 weeks - woo hoo! At the least I'm requesting that the sprouts stay in until this Sunday, 37 weeks. I'm doing well... just tired (not that having the babies will fix this ). BH contrax have picked up a bit and for the past 2 weeks I've been feeling some cervical twinges. The babies dropped even more a few days ago... so things are moving along!

I'm still waiting for the rest of the birthing supplies to arrive in the mail, though we inflated our 'laboring' pool last weekend and have a lot of the basics ready. So it's just up to me to keep doing visualizations and practicing relaxation techniques. I also feel confident with both the MW team and the back-up OB, which is a great place to be.
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What a great idea to have a check-in. I think of you all often, and wonder if your experiences are similar to mine. I don't have much to post lately, which is good, because I feel like I don't have any issues to resolve. I feel so fortunate that this pregnancy is going so well. The babies are measuring ahead weight-wise and so far I don't even have swelling! My sacrum has been challenging for the entire pregnancy, but I do yoga, get acupuncture and chiropractic, and for the most part, do just fine with it.
My latest challenge is getting up in the morning, as my Sierra (baby A) lodges herself VERY low in my pelvis at nite, so I literally can't get up without a lot of position changing to get her to move up a little. I had my first "check" the other day, and my back-up/consult peri touched her head. Now my DH wants to!
I guess I'm in a strange place where I've been so surrounded by a lot of love and support throughout the pregnancy, that I've just been sailing along, and now the reality of two newborns is settling in. My DD who will be 4 in July is very emotional (always has been) and last week when she cried literally 2 out of every 10 minutes, I broke down in tears at the thought of adding two babies who will sooooo need me, to our family. Also, DD stopped nursing when I found out we were having twins, and I thought we were good to go. But she talks A LOT about sharing nursing with the twins. I'm afraid of that!!!
Lots of house projects are getting done, and it's soooo much more than when we had our first, but I feel very driven to get the house to where I will enjoy being in it 24/7 for the first 6 months!
I am staying open as to where I will birth these babies. A lot depends on when they will come, and a lot depends on what feels right at the given time. My thoughts are with the lot of you, and can't wait to hear more!!!!
post #4 of 87
Hello. I'm 26 weeks today (feeling like 40 ). I've got some back pain when I get out of bed which happens often seeing as I have to pee 3-4 times/night. I used to get really bad hip and thigh pain but that seems to have lessened since I am taking more iron. My midwife thought the thigh muscle pain was due to that and I tend to agree. I'm still waiting to get the results of a blood draw taken yesterday to see my hemoglobin level. I was having a lot of breathlessness and lightheadedness as I stopped taking the iron pills (due to extreme nausea). Once I started a double dose of floravit I seemed to have bounced back so hopefully I can control it that way.

The weather is starting to get a bit nicer here so we can actually get outside a bit. I don't have much energy but at least I can get some fresh air and sunshine.

We bought our van a few weeks ago. It hasn't been driven a lot though. I will drive it more once we sell one of our other vehicles. They are cheaper to drive right now.

Healthcare-wise my next appointment is at 28 weeks where I will have another ultrasound. I'm looking forward to seeing how these two little ones have grown. I also have a huge list of things to ask the OB about regarding labour and delivery. Hopefully, he's not running late that day .

A baby shower! That would be nice. We're not having one but we have lots of friends who are giving us tons of clothes and their baby gear once they are done so I won't complain.
post #5 of 87
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Hi Dianna! I'm sorry you have aches & pains. Have you tried some yoga/stretching or swimming? I find that those help me. Are you still working in the ER? I can't imagine at 31+ weeks!
Yup ... I'm still working .... if you want to call it that! I work 20 hours/week, and I've designated myself (with the blessing of my manager) as the triage nurse. Meaning, I no longer do any bedside nursing. I just triage patients, and then put them back in the waiting room. Then, I call back in the back, and get one of the techs, or another nurse to come and get them.
Right now, I'm doing 10 hour shifts ... I'm contemplating talking to my boss on Friday, to see about maybe switching it to shorter shifts.

I had all these grand ideas about going to yoga, and prenatal swim classes, but I just haven't made it there!! It's a 20 min drive to the fitness center, and I'm just SO TIRED!! I keep thinking at this point, I don't have much longer to go! I may get me one of those maternity back belt things. I did get a pillow from Brookstone; it's a lumbar pillow, that massages! Yay! I take it to work with me, as well as when I am driving.
post #6 of 87
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Once I started a double dose of floravit I seemed to have bounced back so hopefully I can control it that way.


A baby shower! That would be nice. We're not having one but we have lots of friends who are giving us tons of clothes and their baby gear once they are done so I won't complain.
Is Floravit the same thing as Floradix?? I'm TRYING to get two doses in a day, as well ... I get short of breath, too. I'm probably going to con the lab girls at work into drawing my blood, to see where my Hgb/Hct are now. I'm scared to death of post partum hemmorrhage, after reading that thread here!!

Baby showers ... now I'm feeling guilty! I'm actually having 2 .. friends this weekend, and family in a few more weeks. Brett and I both have large families, and Brett's family likes to entertain. We're always getting together for something ... especially in the summer.
post #7 of 87
I'm 16 weeks now and just trying to stay afloat with all the chaos at home.
post #8 of 87
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Is Floravit the same thing as Floradix?? I'm TRYING to get two doses in a day, as well ... I get short of breath, too. I'm probably going to con the lab girls at work into drawing my blood, to see where my Hgb/Hct are now. I'm scared to death of post partum hemmorrhage, after reading that thread here!!

Baby showers ... now I'm feeling guilty! I'm actually having 2 .. friends this weekend, and family in a few more weeks. Brett and I both have large families, and Brett's family likes to entertain. We're always getting together for something ... especially in the summer.
From what I understand floradix is the original and floravit is yeast and gluten-free. Everything else is the same. When I said double dose I meant 4/day as the bottle indicates 2/day. My OB recommended 600mg in iron pills but they caused a lot of nausea and heartburn. My midwife recommended the 4/day floravit as it has I think 87mg each dose and is much more absorbable. I'm feeling better and haven't had the lightheadedness although I still feel breathless a bit. But really, that could be just the size of my belly.

Enjoy those baby showers!
post #9 of 87
I'm 27 wks and doing great. Feeling good (albeit it large). No c/x, no aches or pains, no heartburn yet (by now I had it bad with my singleton).

I'm still working but I have a total desk job. I'm actually more rested on weekdays than on weekends. I plan to continue until the end if I'm still comfortable.

Here's a nutrition question for you all: Do you think weight gain or calorie/protein count should be the goal? I.e. do you still strive for the Dr. Luke 3500 cals if you're off her charts in terms of weight gain already? My MWs seem more concerned with lots of protein and normalish weight gain (35-45 lbs) than with the overall calorie count. Seems to make more sense to me.

I have to start getting baby stuff I really have nothing so far. Hope to pick some things at a twin sale and go from there.
post #10 of 87
I'll be 32 weeks tomorrow. Claire is my baby A and she's all lined up with my pelvis now. Not quite engaged at my prenatal on Monday, but I think she dropped a bit that night. Ben is my baby B and he's now head down and likes to grind his head into my left hip. No baby, that's not the exit. You have to wait for your sister to leave.

Both babies are looking great. I was sick last week so my urine dip sucked dogs. I think I'm in better shape now because I'm not trying to keep up with two babies, myself, AND a stomach bug. Contractions keep hanging around. They come and go in intensity and frequency. I've been having a lot of mucousy discharge since Sunday, so perhaps we're starting to rev up for labor. Just 4 more weeks and I can breathe easier.

I am about sick of people "telling" me when they will be born. I'm not talking about fun guesses. I'm talking about people telling me "they will for sure be here soon, look at you!" or "there's no reason to think you won't carry them to your due date". Both things give me a heart attack! I don't want 33, 34, 35 week preemies but I don't really want to go to May 30th! How about a nice compromise of May 14th!!?? 37 weeks sounds nice and baked but not shoot myself crazy.

Seriously though, I'm looking forward to getting to 36 weeks so I can stop worrying about hospital birth.
post #11 of 87
worcma, I never have counted calories, and stopped counting protein at this point (I'm almost 35 weeks), but I feel like I do as much as I can, and come pretty close. Earlier, I counted my protein "points", but now I have sooooo changed my eating to be mostly about protein, I just keep eating often, and always have protein. I know what packs the most punch protein-wise (try a greek yogurt smoothie with wheat germ, protein powder and milk (and fruit), and you'll get a great bang for your buck
I also never tracked fat, but I figured when you're eating red meat, cheese, eggs, etc, that you are getting enough fat. I focused instead on supplements and protein, and wellness care!!!!
post #12 of 87
I do the same! I watch my protein, have a lot of smoothies, and make sure to get my supplements. I try to make sure some kind of veggies are going in my mouth daily and I have at LEAST a gallon of water a day or I pay the price (contractions, swelling, feel like crap).
post #13 of 87
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Originally Posted by Chantelhayes View Post
37 weeks sounds nice and baked but not shoot myself crazy.
Seriously though, I'm looking forward to getting to 36 weeks so I can stop worrying about hospital birth.
OH, it's so nice to hear you say this about 37 weeks - I was starting to feel guilty for thinking that 37 weeks is okay. But it is, right?! And this means that maybe DH and I can DTD again starting this weekend...

Are you able to HB at 36 weeks? My MW will do 37 and up. You'll be past 36 weeks in no time!
post #14 of 87
My midwife will deliver at home starting at 34 weeks.

I'm 29.3 weeks. And absolutely miserable :]. I've been so tired and have had tons of aches and pains since the very beginning.. as of lately i've been having tons of contractions.. today some actually hurt :/. I get so antsy when I'm in bed or laying on the couch. I've also been horrible with keeping track of my protein and water intake. I always throw up my vitamin and have been feeling like a very bad mom for not taking better care of myself.
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My midwife will deliver at home starting at 34 weeks.

I'm 29.3 weeks. And absolutely miserable :]. I've been so tired and have had tons of aches and pains since the very beginning.. as of lately i've been having tons of contractions.. today some actually hurt :/. I get so antsy when I'm in bed or laying on the couch. I've also been horrible with keeping track of my protein and water intake. I always throw up my vitamin and have been feeling like a very bad mom for not taking better care of myself.

I'm sorry you aren't feeling so well. It sounds like you are a bit down in the dumps - do you have good books to read / movies to watch / quiet projects to do / friends to talk with? You need to rest and take care of your body.

When I was having tons of contractions, it was remedied by DRINKING WATER and relaxing/de-stressing and taking Cal/Mag/Zinc daily. So drink water. Always have a full glass next to you, and drink it. I actually carry a hiking bladder around the house with me and drink from it in addition to glasses (i wish it weren't plastic, but it's a sure-fire way to drink with a straw attached, and it measures my intake).

Can your MW recommend a vitamin that might be easier on your stomach? Or a combo of different vitamins taken throughout the day might be easier, with food.

I'm quite surprised that your MW would attend a homebirth at 34 weeks, as I have not known of twins born that early that didn't require NICU or special care nursery for some amount of time. Perhaps her experience is different, though I would encourage you to make sure you know what to expect (as much as you can) regarding the twins' gestational age, birthing time, and birth place. I say this because from what I have seen/read, I personally would not feel comfortable birthing at home much sooner than 37 weeks.

I hope you are able to feel more comfortable soon! Make your body your priority; you and the babies deserve it.
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I'm 29.3 weeks. And absolutely miserable :]. I've been so tired and have had tons of aches and pains since the very beginning.. as of lately i've been having tons of contractions.. today some actually hurt :/. I get so antsy when I'm in bed or laying on the couch. I've also been horrible with keeping track of my protein and water intake. I always throw up my vitamin and have been feeling like a very bad mom for not taking better care of myself.
Sorry you're feeling so awful - I feel pretty terrible, and I'll be 14w tomorrow!

I was at the high risk practice last week, and when I told them I couldn't even smell my prenatal without vomiting, they told me to go out and get flintstones children's vitamins. I did, and they're perfect - ridiculous, but perfect. I take 2 a day.

hope you feel better, mama!

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As for me, this is my first check-in here, though I'm a daily lurker! I'm watching you other mamas with awe, because at 14w, I'm so worn down. The heartburn I've had for 10 weeks now is killing me. I'm ready for a script or at least something stronger than Tums.

Last week I had some unexplained bleeding, but the twins were fine at both ultrasounds. I had a few days of nothing, but now since Monday I've been spotting brown, especially in the mornings, despite being on pelvic rest. It's just not what I want to wake up to in the morning, you know?

Are there any other mamas here who are single? I pursued fertility treatment and was very surprised to have twins... I'd love to hear from others who are surviving the first few years of twins as a single mom.

Chantel, I subscribe to your blog, and you're my hero! You're doing great!!
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they told me to go out and get flintstones children's vitamins. I did, and they're perfect
That's what i was told to do.. I still can't stand them! It's awful..
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That's what i was told to do.. I still can't stand them! It's awful..
aw, i'm sorry! hmmmm.... are you drinking ensure or boost? i bet that would actually have everything you need anyway. you'll get through, sweetie!
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Are you able to HB at 36 weeks? My MW will do 37 and up. You'll be past 36 weeks in no time!
Texas law says 36 weeks for home, though many providers have protocols at 37. My MW said 36 would be fine, but she'd really rather I carry them past 37 just to rule out those last few issues that sometimes crop up at 36 (mainly, suck issues). I'm good with 37-38 weeks!

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Chantel, I subscribe to your blog, and you're my hero! You're doing great!!
Awww, that's so cool! Thank you!

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That's what i was told to do.. I still can't stand them! It's awful..
Forget about that then. Just focus all your energy on eating LOTS of protein and get that gallon of water a day! At LEAST! I'm up way past that now, but my body is screaming MORE WATER!!!! When I don't get it, I am in bed with tons of contractions. I also take cal/mag, floradix, fish oil, probiotics, vit c, and something else I'm drawing a blank on. AND I see the chiro weekly. I have to say, if it wasn't for the sheer amount of weight in there now, I'd be more comfy than I have been in any of my previous pregnancies. Do it for yourself, if not for the babies. You'll have so much more energy and stamina if you take care of your body so it can take care of your babies. I know it's hard! I'm down to drinking most of my protein because I can't get over 100grams any other way.
post #20 of 87
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Here's a nutrition question for you all: Do you think weight gain or calorie/protein count should be the goal? I.e. do you still strive for the Dr. Luke 3500 cals if you're off her charts in terms of weight gain already? My MWs seem more concerned with lots of protein and normalish weight gain (35-45 lbs) than with the overall calorie count. Seems to make more sense to me.
I try to shoot for lots of protein, and lots of water. I'm definitely NOT getting 3500 cal/day, and I'm probably no where near the protein reqs either, but I'm trying.
My appetite has really fallen off lately, which worries me, and my weight gain has sort of leveled off as well.
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