I hope you dont mind my picking all you knowledgeable womens brains...
My DS1 was a induction (my water was broken and I didnt go into labor) that went wonderfully. I dilated smoothly, labored for 14 hrs and pushed for 30 minutes to deliver my 8lb son.
3 yrs later I had a c/s for breech/transverse twins. I did go into labor first and was dilating well and fast and was 7cms when incision was made.
One year later I had my second c/s, again after going into labor naturally and progressing well and dilating. I was 6cms when I was last checked.
3 weeks ago I attemped a VBAC. I was considered the "perfect" candidate, with my history. I started contracting, and they were augmented with a small dose of pit to make them regular after 6 hrs of being painful but not getting a good pattern. I didnt dilate. I presented at 2cm, -2 and 50% effaced and it NEVER changed. Even with regular contractions coming 2 minutes apart for 12 hrs, nothing. I was sectioned 26 hrs after being admitted.
What could have prevented me from dilating? Why did I have three labors that went well and steadily then one that totally and utterly failed? Babe was head down and only 6.5lbs....
I am just genuinely confused, feeling like a failure and feeling like I dont have any answers for what went wrong. I was just hoping that someone here might know what (if anything) could ever cause something like this to happen?

My DS1 was a induction (my water was broken and I didnt go into labor) that went wonderfully. I dilated smoothly, labored for 14 hrs and pushed for 30 minutes to deliver my 8lb son.
3 yrs later I had a c/s for breech/transverse twins. I did go into labor first and was dilating well and fast and was 7cms when incision was made.
One year later I had my second c/s, again after going into labor naturally and progressing well and dilating. I was 6cms when I was last checked.
3 weeks ago I attemped a VBAC. I was considered the "perfect" candidate, with my history. I started contracting, and they were augmented with a small dose of pit to make them regular after 6 hrs of being painful but not getting a good pattern. I didnt dilate. I presented at 2cm, -2 and 50% effaced and it NEVER changed. Even with regular contractions coming 2 minutes apart for 12 hrs, nothing. I was sectioned 26 hrs after being admitted.
What could have prevented me from dilating? Why did I have three labors that went well and steadily then one that totally and utterly failed? Babe was head down and only 6.5lbs....
I am just genuinely confused, feeling like a failure and feeling like I dont have any answers for what went wrong. I was just hoping that someone here might know what (if anything) could ever cause something like this to happen?






I went into labor with my first son on a Thursday night, I went to the hospital Saturday night, and he was born Sunday morning. Thursday the contractions stopped and started A lot, Friday they were pretty constant with a couple of breaks to sleep, and they were all day on Saturday. But he still wasn't born until Sunday. Had I told my care provider, or gone to the hospital any earlier, there is no doubt I would have been sectioned for "failure to progress" even though I was progressing fine, just slower than anyone else was comfortable with.
