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post #1 of 9
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First time mothers...now that I've been a mom for a week and am an expert, here is some advice. Maybe you're not as panicked as I was, but if you're waiting for your milk to come in, and don't think it will...it WILL. Emmett was hungry and cried hysterically for the first 3 days. I felt horrible. My breasts hadn't enlarged more than a half size during pregnancy, and my nipples hadn't changed shape much, two signs that I kept reading were a good way to tell that milk production would work out. So I was worried. He was so upset, and the crying was drying out his mouth.

On day 4 I woke up to very engorged breasts. There is enough milk for a litter of puppies plus my baby! It's more than he can eat, which is sort of painful for me, but it is such a relief. I'm drinking a lot of water, which I think helps.

When he was looking like his mouth was dry during those first horrible days, I dipped a clean finger into water and let him suck on it, so he got several drops of water this way. Then we just dealt with the crying as best we could, and I fed him colostrum pretty much constantly, hoping he was getting the nutrition he needed. It was heartbreaking, but in retrospect, I'm glad we didn't resort to formula supplementation.

Basically, if you're set on no-formula, and you're at this stage in the first couple days and worried, you'll get through it and all will be okay!
post #2 of 9
Thanks so much!
post #3 of 9
Excellent advice! Thanks in advance!!!
post #4 of 9
Good to hear from someone who just went through it!! I think the whole milk supply thing is my biggest concern...
post #5 of 9
*delurk*

yes with my first it was 4-5 days before my milk came in. Trust in your body and don't let anyone freak you out into giving formula. It will be fine!
post #6 of 9

Squirrely on the 2nd day

My new little one slept through the first day, but by the middle of the second day she wanted to nurse ALL THE TIME. She and I were up pretty much all night, but by the 4th day the milk came in and she was more content.

Hang in there and know that the constant desire to feed is good for the milk that needs to arrive!
post #7 of 9
A BTDT mama With my first it took 3 days to come in and my dd was colicky which added to my feelings of concern and low self confidence as a mom. Allowing your LO to nurse on demand will get your body to make the milk sooner and before you know it you'll be on the other end of the spectrum and look great in a tank top
post #8 of 9
A good reminder, thanks! Glad the girls are stepping up to the task!
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Good to hear from someone who just went through it!! I think the whole milk supply thing is my biggest concern...
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Thanks for sharing!
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