Originally Posted by NatureMama3
We've gotten PG on BCP, condoms and using FAM. We're aiming for vasectomy next I think, since this PG (with hyperemesis) has just been more than we can handle.
My sister has good friends who got PG with IUD (stuck), then with tubes tied (stuck) and then with tubes tied AND vasectomy (also stuck).
: I'm sticking my head in the sand about them. We couldn't possibly have that bad of luck.
notwonanamesalike and leerypolyp, those are beautiful stories!!
oh, and i just remembered a story my friend told me... older friends of her good family friends had 2 kids... both were teenagers. Then the mom got pregnant! Not sure if the dad had been snipped or not, but in any case, they were prob. in their late 40s or early 50s. They both decided that they were too old to raise another child through winters in Maine, so they upped and moved to Hawaii!!
now, that's what i call going with the flow... and making it work!!
a little more info... i'm kind of hoping for an 'impossible' baby myself
my dh wants to get snipped, like yesterday. i have stopped trying to convince him to just give it one more go...plus i can barely convince myself. The thought of doing the 0-3 years again... (except the newborn stage because i love that
) makes me want to stick my head in the sand. My ds is 2 next month and i adore every second of him but man... to do it again? not sure...
BUT! if i got pregnant with an 'impossible' baby? i could embrace that cuz... it was impossible, right? even dh would get on board.
kind of warped... but so is my mind