my ds was born at home. his birth was fine although i never had the kind of contractions that i hear about where you can't help but push. i felt like it was a very conscious effort. after that my placenta retained and i bled quickly. when i got to the hospital i had lost 2/3ds of my blood volume and needed a blood transfusion of four bags. it was extremely painful and for a long time after that, i had a very low pain threshold which is not normal for me. it was very difficult for me. i felt guilty. i felt weak. bonding with my son took longer than i thought it would. all that aside, i'm happy i had a homebirth and still advocate for it which is hard for other people to understand. hunter's placenta was bilobed which i know now (i didn't realize this before his birth) makes a retained placenta more of a risk. i've also read that because his placenta was bilobed, i have a greater chance of a bilobed placenta with future pregnancies. i also read that this kind of placenta can lead to birth defects and still birth. i don't know really what to believe and how to sort it all out. in my heart, i want another child someday, but am not sure of the real risks involved for my particular situation. i would love to hear any information to help me make an educated decision about any theoretical future pregnancies. tia...
~barbara
~barbara








: if your placenta had no anomalies other than the fact that it retained, according to my friend's midwife your chances of having another retained placenta are pretty slim. congratulations on the new baby and thank you for your encouragement.
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