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Originally Posted by thewaggonerfamily 
Okay, explain why this is so great to me, totally dense girl... Isn't the point that BF (especially NIP) isn't racy or sexy? (not that we need to be frumpy, either) All things to all people says to me that all we are only valuable to men as sex objects... am I totally not getting it? Is there something I'm missing?
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It's a commentary about the Madonna/Whore dichotomy we have.
That a woman must on one hand be the total sex object hottie to please her man.
And at the same time, be a perfect mother. And the perfect mother, in our culture, is the VIRGIN Mary. No concidence.
This dichotomy pretty much guarantees that every woman will fail at being the ultimate woman (by this standard). Because being sexy is at odds with our vision of motherhood (which apparently involves chastness and virginity).
And nowhere is that dichotomy more apparent than how we see breasts. Breasts are seen in our culture as sexual objects. So when we use them as maternal, um, objects, it causes issues for people who see them as sexual objects.