It looks this tread may be a little old but I need a place to voice my fears and vent. My ex-boyfriend and I are thinking about getting back together again and we DTD twice this month. We used the withdrawal method for birth control even though I was very skeptical about it, seeing as I've gotten pregnant on birth control a multitude of times in the past that ended in early miscarriage (assisted with herbs).
I have a 12 year old daughter and have been toying with the idea of having another child for the last six months or so, but only if my ex and I get back together. Well, I’m 8dpo and I’m pretty sure I’m pregnant. This is going to sound crazy but I started noticing changes about 2dpo. Initially I felt ill (nausea, dizziness and headaches) for about 48 hours but told myself it was way too soon to think I was pregnant, plus he pulled out and we only had sex twice.
This morning I woke with an urgent need to urinate, but forced myself to wait so I could take my BBT and chart it. I was also going to inspect my cervix but my finger slid so easily into the opening of my vagina I gasped…must be pregnant, because I remember how soft it felt with my daughter and my last miscarriage (2 years ago). My finger had this white, lotion like gunk all over it and I remembered that from my pregnancy with my daughter as well.
To make a long story short I think I’m pregnant and didn’t have the intention to conceive. I’m 37 years old and just learned how to chart my fertility this month with the desire of knowing my fertile days to avoid another unplanned pregnancy…seems like “I’m a day late and a dollar short.”
I’ve dank wheatgrass religiously for the past four years. I think this and my genetics are the reason why I’m so fertile. Taking a HPT on New Year’s Day.