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post #61 of 1837
i think i am here too. i am kind of hoping that by posting here i will coax AF into coming. on the other hand, i am kind of hoping that i am pregnant.

usually i know when i ovulate, but this time i'm not sure. it was sometime last week. i lost my thermometer (or rather, my 3yo lost it) and so i'm not sure of the exact day.

my littlest is 11 months old and so it is probably too early for me to be pregnant again. but a new baby, ahhhh, the thought always makes me smile.
post #62 of 1837
Oceans Eve - I'm glad things worked out the way you wanted it seems. Opening up conversation is always a good thing.

I tested this morning 12DPO BFN, but my tem went up again, normally it starts to go down today (normally meaning every cycle but this one). ARRG PP was right sticks in the back yard would be just as helpful. AF is due in 2 days, if she does not show up I'm not sure if I will test again or wait till 18 dpo

Who am I kidding if my temp is still high or climbing on sat I will test again. If it is + we need to find a place to live pronto, the guy we live with is anti baby.
post #63 of 1837
Can I sneak over here too?

I spotted this thread in new posts and decided that I had to join.
I don't chart but I"m usually very aware of when I ovulate. I don't have any idea what happened this month. I think I was just so busy I wasn't paying attention. Actually I have been so busy dh hasn't gotten much attention either. The few times we DTD, we used protection. So wasn't the least bit worried. Then on Sat. I had some light spotting which I usually get 3-5 days before af. So I have been waiting for af to come the last few days. Then suddenly yesterday, the light bulb over my head blinked on, and I realized that af is almost 2 weeks late!! Where have I been, I usually know when its even 1 day late!
So now I am raking my brain trying to figure this out. So far I have no pg symptoms. The only thing I've had is a very vivid dream on Sun. night that I was pg. I don't believe in dreams and such, it was just weird. Then other day I commented that the cat food stank and my dh looked at me and said,"you keep commenting on the smell of things, are you pregnant?" Mind you he would be beyond thrilled! I am the one who says I'm content with 3.
I might run to the dollar store today to get a test. If I waste money on a test that ususally gets af to show up!
post #64 of 1837
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Originally Posted by althara View Post
I just couldn't not respond to your post. I hope everything turns out well for you.
Thanks

I would have sworn that af would be here by this morning due to cramps/backache etc... Instead cramp are gone & nothing... Oh & I almost puked after having supper last night & I had pulsing pulling pain in my groin...: Very freaked out at this point... I have to go to Dr. today, so I'll ask him what he thinks...Hopefully I don't get yelled at
post #65 of 1837
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Originally Posted by my3monkees View Post
The only thing I've had is a very vivid dream on Sun. night that I was pg. I don't believe in dreams and such, it was just weird. Then other day I commented that the cat food stank and my dh looked at me and said,"you keep commenting on the smell of things, are you pregnant?" Mind you he would be beyond thrilled! I am the one who says I'm content with 3.
I might run to the dollar store today to get a test. If I waste money on a test that ususally gets af to show up!
Oh, sweetie, you're toast! My first pregnancy symptom tends to be a dream of being pregnant or a positive pregnancy test. Dreams can just be ways of your body telling your mind something it already knows!

Good luck!

p.s. I'm not in this boat with you all, but hovering nearby ready to throw a line to anyone who needs it
post #66 of 1837
oh man...with all these BFNs happenin' i am soooooo thinking i'm going to be the unlucky duck to get that BFP...

New symptom: funky funky digestion!!!
post #67 of 1837
Thread Starter 
I only have a second so I will reply to the newer posts later (sorry!).

I took another one this morning and BFN. I think. As soon as the dye started to go across I saw another line...but it's not really colored...so I think it's an evap line. I feel like AF is coming.

I'll keep testing once I spot..but I spot every cycle before AF so I know it will be over then.

I'll be back later.
post #68 of 1837
Isn't fertility such a roller coaster? You hope hope hope that you are not preggie, then you start getting used to the idea and then when it doesn't turn out that way, you feel that sadness....
post #69 of 1837
I know I will be both relieved and sad If I am not pregnant.

I have had heartburn for the past couple of days, I never have heartburn. I thought is from one of the supplements I was taking, but I didn't take it today and I still have it. UGH, if i am not pregnant this is one funky cycle.
post #70 of 1837
Thread Starter 
I'm out. I'm spotting. I NEVER spot while pregnant.

I'm so sad now. I was so hoping to be able to tell my family at our camping trip next weekend too.

Oh well. I"m currently discussing with my husband about becoming quiverfull. And he's actually listening. It was pressed upon me when all this pregnancy stuff came up. Honestly, before I thought I was...I wanted NO more children. I was pretty much done. So *something* convinced me to feel otherwise.

Anyway, good luck to the rest of you who are waiting to find out!!
post #71 of 1837
Kimmiepie- I'm sorry you didn't get the result you were looking for.
post #72 of 1837
nak

pretty much, i either haven't O'd yet (at CD 38) or i am pg. i'm waiting till 2 weeks post our last unprotected sex to test. i am not charting officially. we had unprotected sex twice, two weekends in a row. the first time i thought i was nowhere near O'ing, second time i was spotting (i never do) so thought it was AF. it wasn't.

spotting could've possibly been implantation, i guess. i haven't POAS at all.

no symptoms. i'm leaning toward i just never O'd yet, but you never know. i don't want to be pg. maybe ever

so why'd we risk it at all? i am so irritated with myself!!!
post #73 of 1837
Well i'm still in the waiting game.

Kimmiepie, sorry to hear AF showed up I was really rooting for you. We both has DS born 2/06.

Anyway, The wait is driving me crazy. One day I am positive I am, and the next I'm not sure. I had some menst. type cramping yesterday, but I was also dealing with the stomach flu. And I felt terrible and nauseous all day. It kinda scared me. I was horribly sick with DD for the first three months and I wondered if i was pg if I would be sick like that again. This time I have 2 little ones to care for. So the thought of having morning sickness and taking care of my DD and DS totally freaked me out. It was kind of a reality check. Then how am I going to juggle 3 kids at once. I feel like I just got use to having 2! :

Okay...take a deep breath...There i go freaking myself out before I even know if I'm pg or not. And I was the one who wanted to pg.

So is the life of a worry wort. I am trying to wait until Sunday, which will be 4 days before AF, before I test. Here's making it to Sunday...
post #74 of 1837
Can I join in? I am only 4 mos pp. I have have 2 kids. ds is 20 mos and dd is 4 mos on Saturday. I have been feeling super sick this last week like I am when I am first pregnant. I ebf dd but she sleeps thru the night. I am crazy to even think I am pregnant but I just am so sick plus I have very vivid dreams when I am first pregnant and I have had some. We have only dtd 1.5 times since dd was born so I think its impossible but I thought that before and I was preg with dd.
post #75 of 1837
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Originally Posted by fireflies~for~me View Post
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New symptom: funky funky digestion!!!
Reeeally? DO tell us More!

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Yikes...is there something in the water? There seem to be a lot of us.
post #76 of 1837
Ick! I never should have posted on this thread. I was just trying to be helpful to mention my newest find in paranoia tests, but now I sit here with a massive headache (hormone related?), lower backache, sick stomach and indigestion (even though I haven't eaten hardly anything all day). I tested this morning, but at 9 DPO it's much too early to really tell anything.
post #77 of 1837
constant rumbling....not like hunger - digestion.
More like wierd things are happening hormonally and in my bones and blood....

I sure hope I am wrong! ARG!
post #78 of 1837
I got my blood pregnancy test results back today... So I guess my body just hates me... I'm so close to being able to ttc again & my body is deciding to mess w/ me... I still have spotting,cramping & a really bad backache from time to time... & the spotting gets worse when we bd & then goes away... I just want my stupid af to come so I can start trying again...


I hope the rest of you get the results your hoping for
post #79 of 1837
My temp was down today, so it looks like I am heading towards AF. We will see what tomorrow brings.
post #80 of 1837

HA-the irony....

maybe I'll just not test at all and just figure out that I am pregnant when it's ready to pop out!

I am either 12dpo or 6dpo....all I know is that I was ovulating around those times that we were together and my libido was thru the roof.....
good gracious!
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