I've been struggling with this a lot. My mind really wants to have sex, but I can't get my body to respond positively. And then it ends up being terribly uncomfortable, regardless of positions. I feel bad for dh cause I know he's certainly interested and it incredibly patient - he's resigned himself to thinking that pregnancy and sex just don't mix. But I sure would like to get my body on the same page as my mind, cause I want to do it.