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post #1 of 7
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Dd is almost 2, allergic to wheat, peanuts, tree nuts, soy, eggs, sesame, bell peppers, tomato, everything in the squash family, peas, lentils, some beans.

I try to give dd the following at every lunch and dinner (all animal products are organic, as is most of the produce):
*1 protein source (hamburger, roast chicken, turkey breast, organic all-beef hot dog, refried beans, etc.)
*1 grain/starch (brown rice pasta, brown rice bread, brown or red rice, millet, quinoa, corn, baked sweet potato, etc.)
*1-2 veggies (broccoli, cauliflower, carrots, asparagus, etc.; I count avocado in this category, too, b/c she's allergic to so many veggies)
*1 fruit (melon, banana, berries, pear, apple, kiwi, mango, peach, whatever)

For breakfast she usually has a grain (blueberry waffles or pancakes--rice flour, course--Ian's allergen-free French toast sticks or oatmeal), plus fruit and a slice of turkey. Yogurt, fresh fruit, Just Tomatoes dehydrated fruit, cheese, and brown rice cakes are her usual snacks.

It all sounds pretty good, but I feel like everything is SO boring. She doesn't like "dishes" (casseroles, etc.). She prefers all her food separate. There are a few more complicated things that she consistently eats: millet-veggie loaf, fried rice, and quinoa-corn salad. She's getting a little pickier about veggies--tonight she wouldn't eat her carrots, for example, and I can't get any greens into her, no matter how hard I try (won't touch smoothie-type things). Every now and then I make a quick bread or oatmeal bars or snickerdoodles as a treat.

I find preparing safe foods difficult and time-consuming (I hate cooking and I'm a full-time student, so I'm very busy)--particularly because she tends to reject anything more interesting I recently made both a golden yam spread and a spinach and white bean spread and she rejected both after one taste. She turned down a recent kale-potato soup, too. I dunno...I feel like we're in a food rut.
post #2 of 7
The kids don't care if it's boring. Haven't you seen kids who eat only noodles day after day? Or will only eat corn as a vegetable? Adults want more variety, but kids not so much.

That being said, we have similar restrictions. I don't control foods quite so much though. I don't insist on having one of each thing at each meal, because I figure it all balances out during the day. And yes, I hear your frustration about trying to introduce new foods that the child can have, and then they won't even taste it. I've been trying to make a milk, soy, legume free ice cream for my 2 restricted kids, and those two won't touch them. But they're really good so DH and I are eating them! Luckily I like experimenting, but I'm a SAHM so I can put in the extra time.

My dd likes to dip (most kids do), so I do asparagus when we're going to have gravy with chicken. I saute spinach when we're having baked salmon because she loves that taste combo (DH and I do too). My DD has banana as her only fruit, so I make it into a smoothie, and she does drink it. My DD likes sausage and bacon dipped in maple syrup (she's so restricted otherwise, that I don't mind the extra fat for her). I make a big batch of mini meatballs and heat them up in broth for her at lunchtime.

I notice some food family things: "peanuts, soy, peas, lentils, some beans" well they're all legumes. Have you found any legumes that she can have? I'm curious because two of my kids don't do legumes because they reacted to so many. Also you have bell peppers and tomatoes, which are both nightshades, but it sounds like she can still have potatoes? My DD can't do any of the nightshades.

I have recipes on my website that are pretty close to yours. My DD can have wheat and sesame, but other than that, they're the same, and I don't use sesame very much.

You can also branch out to more veggies in the same food families that you know are safe. I found fennel that way, and hadn't used it before.
post #3 of 7
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I don't see it as "controlling" food--I just try to provide her with balanced meals, so she has a lot of variety. It's hard to know what to make her, since she doesn't eat a lot of "dishes", so I at least like to give *myself* some ideas!

She can eat some legumes: pinto beans and chickpeas are fine (she'll eat refried beans 'til the cows come home), and it looks like Great Northern beans and green beans are okay (she's only taken tastes of these, so I'm not sure it's definitive). She seems to be outgrowing soy, which was always a mild allergy, as well.

And, yes, potatoes are fine, even though bell peppers and tomatoes seem not to be (bell peppers are kind of on the margins--she gets a few hives, which don't bother her, if she eats them, so it's not a serious reaction--nothing like wheat, for instance).

I suspect those "families" of foods will get better as her immune system develops. She has very minor reactions to them--hives which don't itch--rather than the full-blown allergic reaction she had to wheat (airway restriction, etc.). She's never had eggs or any nuts, so we have no idea how severe these are.
post #4 of 7
I didn't mean "controlling" as a bad thing. I just mean that it's too much for me to look at 3 kids' plates at every meal and make sure there are a certain number of servings on each plate. I'm already going nutty with the different food intolerances in the family.

I make stuff that can be done to varying degrees.

I'll do make your own tacos, and have corn taco shells (for DH and DD#1) and homemade wheat tortillas (for me, DS, and DD#2). And we'll have chicken, cheese (for DH and DD#1), mashed avocado, lettuce, tomato (DH), black olives, onions (DH). Same thing with make your own salad. The kids like those so they can tailor what they're having.

roast chicken with gravy, rice, and asparagus or cooked carrots
meat with baked sweet potatoes and
baked salmon with sauteed spinach and rice
beef roast with rice, gravy, and cooked carrots
Chicken with roasted fennel, onion, carrot, and sweet potato
fried rice (with pork, salt, pepper, ginger, carrots, celery) - no soy sauce and no egg
homemade chicken broth with mini meatballs (ground beef or turkey), celery and carrots
homemade chicken broth with rice noodles, carrots, chicken pieces
banana muffins
carrot cake muffins
coconut bread

I use sweet potatoes in stew, sweet potato fries, and sweet potato chips.

I'm trying a new granola bar recipe and it was good so far, but now I want to do it with the gluten-free oats and no one has them. It uses the gluten-free crispy rice cereal, and honey and molasses. I have recipes for gluten free banana muffins and carrot cake muffins. I stick a little frosting on it and call it a cupcake.

Can you make an italian dressing - oil, vinegar, and a couple spices for her to dip some veggies in?

By the way, yesterday I read that quinoa is a protein. Didn't realize that. So I guess it can be in the starch and protein sections! I made my leftover quinoa into a taboule one day and it was really good. Not sure if your DD would eat it though. My DD loves rice cakes (the ones that are lightly salted).

Any of those ideas new? All the recipes are in my blog in my sig.
post #5 of 7
Thread Starter 
I can't imagine how hard it is to manage different allergies--dd is an only, so at least we have it easy that way.

When did you introduce fish? Dd tests negative, but her allergist said to delay. The pediatrician, OTOH, thinks it might be worth introducing sooner rather than later, as a source of EFAs (since she can't eat nuts and pretty much won't eat greens). We've tried make-you-own tacos, but it's tough for dd--she doesn't like corn tortillas (though she loves corn) and can't eat most of the usual "taco" veggies--so she just ends up with beans, corn, and avocado--which is fine, I suppose.
post #6 of 7
I introduced fish pretty early with both my allergenic kids because I thought they needed extra protein/fat. Both of them eat salmon, tilapia, and my 3yo likes tunafish (we get it at Trader Joes, which doesn't have soy in it - most of the canned ones do). With the salmon, we poach or bake it. The tilapia we'll fry in a little olive oil. It's funny because my DD (10 yo) who has no food issues wasn't introduced to fish until she was 3 or 4 (at least) and she can't stand ANY fish. The other two I introduced probably around 10-12 months old, and they both love it. They'd probably like other kinds of fish too, I just haven't tried any. If I were you though, I'd probably stay away from SHELLFISH because they are more allergenic. Just stick with the regular fish.

I know it's hard finding food that the 1) can have AND 2) they like. Believe me, I know. Especially dealing with 3 of them. But we manage to have family dinners every night that everybody can and does eat.

Tonight we're doing steak, sweet potato chips (fried in canola, home made), boiled beets (orange and red) and salad. How about I just tell you what I'm making each night? :

That'll give you an idea!! You'll see how boring our meals are though.
post #7 of 7
Ds is allergic to dairy, milk, eggs, peanuts, and green peas.

Things he likes and will usually eat:

Breakfast:

Whole wheat toast
oatmeal
cereal w/rice milk or just dry cereal


Lunch:
Meats (mainly chicken or beef)
Fruits (strawberries, peaches, apples, grapes, manderin oranges)
Whole grain pasta with olive oil/garlic seasoning
Veggies (so far, he'll only eat tomatoes)

Dinner:
Meatloaf (I use an egg replacer to help "bind" it-I can usually sneak veggies in also)
Chicken/beef
sweet potato fries (cut sweet potato, coat with olive oil & bake)
any fruit
Whole grain pasta/bread/rice

Snacks:
Dried fruit
whole grain pretzels
graham crackers (sometimes)

HTH

Laura
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