My son was large- 9.5 lbs. I am small... His birth went from imperfect to difficult to impossible because my water broke early, his being so large and firmly wedged crookedly in my pelvis in a way where though I was in labor for 24 hours, because of his position, he never stimulated the cervix properly to dilate- I only ever got to 2 cm. I ended up with a c-section, as infection was becoming a concern, the fact that he was so large and crooked, and my personal exhaustion (after all that time, I had contractions every minute and would fall asleep between them!). We tried to avoid it, but things were going from bad to worse pretty fast.
Dr says that for Baby #2 he will do a vbac gladly, but anticipates another "big baby", or at least the possiblility of that, and said that another big baby would have a good chance of ending up with a similar situation as DS and may end up another c-section. He would like to do an u/s at about 38weeks to get a sense of size and position.
What I would like to ask y'all is: If baby #2 looks big at 38 weeks, would you ask to induce to try to avoid a c-section? I would very much like to avoid both, and I know that large babies can be birthed just fine vaginally when labor begins on its own, so this question is tearing at me. I would VERY MUCH like to avoid another c-section, but I am not keen on induction either. But I think I might rather induce if conditions seem to be aligning themselves like they were for DS rather than risk it all and end up with another c-section.
What do you think?
Dr says that for Baby #2 he will do a vbac gladly, but anticipates another "big baby", or at least the possiblility of that, and said that another big baby would have a good chance of ending up with a similar situation as DS and may end up another c-section. He would like to do an u/s at about 38weeks to get a sense of size and position.
What I would like to ask y'all is: If baby #2 looks big at 38 weeks, would you ask to induce to try to avoid a c-section? I would very much like to avoid both, and I know that large babies can be birthed just fine vaginally when labor begins on its own, so this question is tearing at me. I would VERY MUCH like to avoid another c-section, but I am not keen on induction either. But I think I might rather induce if conditions seem to be aligning themselves like they were for DS rather than risk it all and end up with another c-section.
What do you think?









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Good luck. And don't let the idea of a big baby scare ya. Most moms of big babies say that it's easier to birth the bigger babies-- they help more.