not from your DDC, just wanted to throw in a YIKES! time for a new doctor indeed!

: Personally I've always preferred nurse practitioners or family practice docs over peds.
as for the paci:
http://www.drgreene.com/21_608.html
yes, it is indicted in causing ear infections.
breastfeeding, the rhythm of parental breathing and the increased CO2 do help babies stay in a safe sleeping pattern though.. in regards to cosleeping.