I am glad it went to well, my only advice for the pregnancy is to try to be kind. I am a bear when I am pregnant mean and having a really short fuse, when I was pregnant with DS there was a period of time DSS did not want to be around me at all b/c I was so mean. We generally really get along well. I have notice now that I have a similar tendency toward both DS and DSS now that I am pregnant again. I have to keep telling myself you aren't rationale and they are just children espcially when I start yelling why can't you just play, leave me alone, shut up etc... I apologize alot when i am pregant. DH and DSS will not say that I have my pregnant face on. They think this is very funny. So I guess if you are especially cranky be prepared to apologize alot. I will frequently ask why it is so hard to like your children while you are gestating another child.
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5/3/08 at 1:32pm