Confession time - My brother has always been a Dave Ramsey nut and I've always thought he was just one more of those get rich schemers.
Yeah. Now I'm kinda seeing how wrong I was

That car payment video was kind whoa

I also can't believe that that's the regular car payment for people. It's just kind of astonishing to me.
Anyways...
My DP and are starting the baby steps pretty much now.
BS1 $1,000 to start an Emergency Fund: DONE
*CURRENT STEP BS2* Pay off all debt using the Debt Snowball
CC1 - 200(ish) - working on killing by the end of the month
CC2 - 1200(ish)
CC3 - 2500(ish)
Car - 4584.81
Private Student Loan - 19,000(ish)
Sallie Mae (mine) - 36,604.43
Sallie Mae (DP's) - 58,857.72
BS3 Three to six months of expenses in savings
$1075 current/$10,000 goal
BS4 Invest 15 percent of household income into Roth IRAs and pre-tax retirement
BS5 College funding for children: N/A at moment
BS6 Pay off home early N/A at moment
BS7 Build wealth and give! Invest in mutual funds and real estate
$11,000 invested at moment (yay for retirement gift trusts)
The ish amounts are debts in my DP's name and she has some pretty serious anxiety around money and can't look at the balance right now without it causing a panic attack (poor thing

), but she has agreed to talk with me about it in the near future.
Making a zero balance budget has already taken some of her anxiety away. She's leaving her job in a few weeks and is uncertain what she'll be doing next. I made the budget with my income and a really low temp. job income for her and everything was fine. All bills paid, some extra thrown at the first CC on the list, and still money to be able to live well (ie no giving up our netflix, or a few meals out a month). Now we know that things will be okay instead of having to guess.
I was doing the math the other night and it seems reasonable to shoot for the end of the summer to have all the CC's paid, and the car by early next year. Then we can finally make a dent in those student loans, and see them go down significantly each month

It's such a different feeling from expecting to be paying them until we're 80.
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