I didn't really like it much for nursing, either. It just didn't hold dd at the right height. I used it for lots of other stuff, though, and dd did like it a lot. I mentioned to a (tall) friend recently, that it was never comfortable for nursing and she told me she had that problem, too, but she used 2 boppys stacked and it worked great. I'll probably try it again, but even if I don't use it for nursing, I'm sure I'll use it for other stuff.