I dont think thats what she was saying. ... I dont think she will have a 'difficult' child...but its more along the lines of saying ...everyone in my family is blonde and everyone in my DHs family is blonde so chances are, every child we have will be blonde...the freak occurance of a red head might be possible, but I wont expect it.
I felt the need to reply to this because everyone in both our sides of the family are 'highly sensitive'...this makes us mellow most of the time...I know I wont get a highly sprited child (which for me would be hard being HS myself) - this isnt because my DS is mellow...I know this because of just how things work. Both DH and I were born tongue tied...so was my son...I know my next child will be as well because of this...its all just sort of along those lines if anything I am saying is making sense! lol....
I think thats what she was trying to say?