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5/3/08 at 3:19am
The original poster is in California - so am I and I have three intact sons. I don't make it a point to preach or flaunt intactness. We're in northern Cal and I know several middle class caucasian families who have gone the intact route. At least around here, it is an increasingly viable option and highly educated folks are often pro-intact.
I'd suggest just chilling out - over time you may find that your son is not alone.
Once I was babysitting two different boys. One was intact, he was two. The other was 4 yrs old. He was circ'd.
I was changing the two yr old intact kid's diaper and the circ'd 4 yr old noticed he was different. He said, "What is that?".
I said, "Thats a foreskin. All boys are born with one, even you."
This was 6 yrs ago. I didn't have an intact ds at the time yet but I knew enough by that time to KNOW for sure it wasn't happening to another ds of mine.