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post #1 of 39
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You often hear about the health benefits of breastfeeding. From people I know that didn't breastfeed, the health benefits weren't even something they thought about. They didn't seem to think that the benefits were overwhelming enough to consider breastfeeding. I have to wonder, why aren't those health benefits marketed louder and with more force?

Recently I happened upon information about the benefit of breastmilk during chemotherapy. That got my mind working. We are about to adopt a child with an illness that compromises his immune system. Although he's an older child (3-6 years of age), would breastmilk benefit him?

I sent out several emails to "experts" in the field. They all replied back to me and told me that breastmilk would definetely benefit our child. One of the experts even provided details of a case where a child with the same illness that my child will have thrived on breastmilk and it kept him from dying. The doctor who prescribed the child breastmilk chose not to do a case study on the child because he was concerned what it would mean to the supply at milk banks.

Learning this information has really changed how I view breastfeeding. Don't get me wrong, I've always known breastfeeding was great. I've been breastfeeding for 3.5 years and am tandem nursing. That said, nursing a 3 year old has made me uncomfortable at times. I've had to stand up for myself to different family members, which is something I don't enjoy.

I assumed that when people found out that I would be pumping for our adopted child they'd be a little weirded out by it. Recently I was talking to my mom about it and my dad walked into the room. He's not anti-breastfeeding or anything but talking about it makes him uncomfortable. I was absolutely surprised when he told me that I SHOULD provide breastmilk to our adopted child and that he was amazed at what an amazing substance it is!

I've developed a whole new confidence when it comes to nursing. I'm not longer the least bit reluctant to nurse in front of anyone. I'm more confident in my decision to allow my children to decide when to wean. I guess you could say I've fallen in love all over again with breastfeeding.

Why aren't these miraculous benefits made known to the general public? If mothers knew that breastmilk kept children alive who have life threatening illnesses they would feel more compelled to breastfeed. I've gotten the impression that a vast majority of mothers don't think the health benefits of breastmilk are all that substantial. People religiously take multivitamins and all sorts of other health boosting substances yet the greatest health booster out there is breastmilk!

If these claims that I've read in regards to immunocompromised children are true why isn't this marketed? Why isn't research being done on this?
post #2 of 39
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Originally Posted by grantskismom+1 View Post
If these claims that I've read in regards to immunocompromised children are true why isn't this marketed? Why isn't research being done on this?
Where's the money? What's the effect on the bottom line when you pump breastmilk for free instead of having to buy as many pills?

It's totally wrong, but that's why.

Thank goodness you found out about it in time. I'd actually suggest a crosspost to the adoptive family forum so that other people who might be adopting a child with the same situation can know about it. Hmm, really non-adoptive parents should know about this too, but around here they're more likely to already be breastfeeding. (Heck, around here, adoptive parents are likely to be breastfeeding, it's just a bit less likely with adopted older children.)
post #3 of 39
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Originally Posted by grantskismom+1 View Post

If these claims that I've read in regards to immunocompromised children are true why isn't this marketed? Why isn't research being done on this?
Because marketing or informing the public about the real bottom line which isn't the benefits of breast milk, but the RISK of formula might make the public at large feel guilty and Mead Johnson, Ross et. al, won't be having any of that.

Benefits of breastmilk to many means, over and above formula which is totally fine for babies.
post #4 of 39
Because it would offend women who choose to formula feed.
post #5 of 39
it's so funny but you're right. on the one hand there's pressure to not breastfeed (or at least not for long--we just passed the two year mark with no end in sight and i'm starting to feel like a freak in this culture but i don't really care) and on the other hand there's this obvious benefit to breastfeeding. it's kinda like, the only trouble with breastmilk is that it comes out of women's breasts!
post #6 of 39
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Originally Posted by MommytoTwo View Post
Because it would offend women who choose to formula feed.
You know, I myself used to be afraid of offending my formula feeding friends. I'd often make breastfeeding out to be a chore when I was around them just so they didn't get defensive. Knowing what I know now, I don't give a cr@p if it offends them. But on the other hand, it's not really their fault. This information just isn't out there. I've always considered myself pretty knowledgable about breastfeeding and I didn't have a clue that older children and adults consumed breastmilk in certain cirumstances. If it'll help a sick kid just think what it will do for a healthy kid!
post #7 of 39
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Because marketing or informing the public about the real bottom line which isn't the benefits of breast milk, but the RISK of formula might make the public at large feel guilty and Mead Johnson, Ross et. al, won't be having any of that.

Benefits of breastmilk to many means, over and above formula which is totally fine for babies.
Precisely. Whenever you don't use words like "choice" or "better" in regards to this issue, people get defensive.
post #8 of 39
Hi. Not to hijack your thread or anything but going along with breastmilk being beneficial for people with different physical ailments -- what about Parkinson's Disease? I am finding the thread interesting but don't have much to respond with and I wanted to ask that.
post #9 of 39
My dad was just dx with colon cancer. He will be starting chemo soon. I am nursing two children and have milk to spare. I know there is no way he will accept milk if I pump for him (and I kind of don't blame him - it IS weird in our culture). But I know it would help. I'm bummed that I have this AMAZING thing over here for FREE and we can't use it.

If anyone has any suggestions on what I can say to him to maybe convince him to try it (or how to sneak it - smoothies anyone? ) I'm all ears.
post #10 of 39
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Teyu, I'm not really educated on this issue but I can't see breastmilk helping a great deal with Parkinsons as that's a neurological disease, correct? From the reading I've done breastmilk helps in areas where the immune system is compromised.

Meno, good luck trying to talk your dad into consuming breastmilk. (I'm very sorry to hear about his cancer diagnosis.) I know my dad would rather suffer than consume my breastmilk, and I can understand why. Even I freak out a little when I taste my breastmilk.

In regards to people being offended regarding the use of words "best" or "better," if they'd start trumpeting the miraculous benefits of breastmilk the words "best" or "better" wouldn't even need to be used. A headline like, "Breastmilk improves outcome for chemotherapy and HIV patients" says everything that needs to be said.
post #11 of 39
because of misinformation in the medical community. my ds has an immune disorder, and his immunologist (who is supposedly one of the best in the country) has told me i am essentially wasting my time eping for him because the only immunological benefit from breast milk is in the first few *weeks*. ds is 10 months. he is on medical formula for ftt right now, but i still ep and give him ebm because i think this doctor is full of it.
post #12 of 39
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... my ds has an immune disorder, and his immunologist (who is supposedly one of the best in the country) has told me i am essentially wasting my time eping for him because the only immunological benefit from breast milk is in the first few *weeks*. ds is 10 months. he is on medical formula for ftt right now, but i still ep and give him ebm because i think this doctor is full of it.
preemiemamarach,
Wow. That's beyond scary.

Keep pumping for your baby. Mama definitely knows best.
~Cath
post #13 of 39
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because of misinformation in the medical community. my ds has an immune disorder, and his immunologist (who is supposedly one of the best in the country) has told me i am essentially wasting my time eping for him because the only immunological benefit from breast milk is in the first few *weeks*. ds is 10 months. he is on medical formula for ftt right now, but i still ep and give him ebm because i think this doctor is full of it.
Oh dear! Mama, you are doing the right thing.

I agree with what everyone has said. I'd also like to mention that people have more faith in cow's milk than breasts milk. A lot of people would think you are nuts not to give a 3-6 year old (or heck a 6 month old) cow's milk, but they'll get mad if they get milk from a woman as if it's so nasty. And breastfeeding older children? Let's not even get into that! People have long recognize the benefits of cows milk (even though it's from another species) but not of that from a woman.

ETA: Excuse me if I sound a lil hippie, but I must wonder if people don't realize or are afraid of the power of women's bodies when it comes to childrearing (and childbearing). Just a thought.
post #14 of 39
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Originally Posted by menomena View Post
My dad was just dx with colon cancer. He will be starting chemo soon. I am nursing two children and have milk to spare. I know there is no way he will accept milk if I pump for him (and I kind of don't blame him - it IS weird in our culture). But I know it would help. I'm bummed that I have this AMAZING thing over here for FREE and we can't use it.

If anyone has any suggestions on what I can say to him to maybe convince him to try it (or how to sneak it - smoothies anyone? ) I'm all ears.
: Did you try putting it in his cereal? jk
post #15 of 39
When my middle child was a 2 and still nursing strong, my aunt shared a story with me about her breastfeeding friend. My aunt only breastfed her last child but her one friend was a tandem and extended nurser for her two girls. This friend was still nursing her youngest at the time her oldest broke her arm. Her friend, knowing the benefits of bm started putting bm in her cereal every morning. This went on for a few weeks before the older child asked mom what have you been doing to my cereal because it takes different.

I find it sad that people in our society get so weirded out by extended breastfeeding or nursing in general. I agree, our bodies are amazing and powerful....imagine if everyone tapped into that and had that faith.
post #16 of 39
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Originally Posted by ElliesMomma View Post
it's kinda like, the only trouble with breastmilk is that it comes out of women's breasts!
BINGO! Why is that so bad? Anyway, OP you are doing a great thing! Super!
post #17 of 39
This is interesting to me. In college, I did a research paper on wet-nursing during the early modern period (renaissance). Wet-nurses were commonly employed for sick and elderly people during that time period, not just for babies.
post #18 of 39
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Originally Posted by honeybunch2k8 View Post
Oh dear! Mama, you are doing the right thing.

I agree with what everyone has said. I'd also like to mention that people have more faith in cow's milk than breasts milk. A lot of people would think you are nuts not to give a 3-6 year old (or heck a 6 month old) cow's milk, but they'll get mad if they get milk from a woman as if it's so nasty. And breastfeeding older children? Let's not even get into that! People have long recognize the benefits of cows milk (even though it's from another species) but not of that from a woman.

ETA: Excuse me if I sound a lil hippie, but I must wonder if people don't realize or are afraid of the power of women's bodies when it comes to childrearing (and childbearing). Just a thought.
Totally! It's too scary to admit women have this power! Much has been forgotten therefore...

I saw an article linked up today, from the UK, on this! But it did say "BF reduces cancer risk"-- it's really that choosing not to BF (and yes it's not always a choice I know but generally)-- raises your risk of cancer by about a third. DH was telling me how surprised he was to read an article about BFing and how half of it was about not pressuring moms or making them feel bad... and I started yelling that stat and he laughed, b/c he wanted to make me shout, b/c the article made him so mad

Sorry nak but it keeps popping up these last few days, I had to post!
post #19 of 39
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Originally Posted by St. Margaret View Post
DH was telling me how surprised he was to read an article about BFing and how half of it was about not pressuring moms or making them feel bad... and I started yelling that stat and he laughed, b/c he wanted to make me shout, b/c the article made him so mad
I read that about 5 times and I don't get it. Why did the article make him mad? Because it wasn't pressuring moms?
post #20 of 39
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Originally Posted by pjabslenz View Post
When my middle child was a 2 and still nursing strong, my aunt shared a story with me about her breastfeeding friend. My aunt only breastfed her last child but her one friend was a tandem and extended nurser for her two girls. This friend was still nursing her youngest at the time her oldest broke her arm. Her friend, knowing the benefits of bm started putting bm in her cereal every morning. This went on for a few weeks before the older child asked mom what have you been doing to my cereal because it takes different.

I find it sad that people in our society get so weirded out by extended breastfeeding or nursing in general. I agree, our bodies are amazing and powerful....imagine if everyone tapped into that and had that faith.
Wow I didn't realize anyone had actually done that, but it is a good idea! If SO gets sick I may have to put some in his cereal. Shhhhhh don't tell!
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