I'd said that what I was saying was fact............where?
I am saying, to each her own. Read and make up your own damn mind on what you feel is necessary and unncessary. To me, I had one to find out my due date, and one to make sure she was growing. Well excuse me for wanting to know whether or not there will be any risks to her. Gosh, I am such a horrid person for doing that right?
AS for the stupid ass surveys. The one I quoted was from 2001, simply to show that after all the studies they still hadn't proven it EITHER way. The ones you quoted were from...the 1980's? 70's? Think a little research might have gone on since then huh?? Let me quote myself here: "But I cannot prove they are completely harmless, no more than someone else can prove that they are harmful. " Now at what point did that sentence become "I'm right, you're wrong, they are completely harmless." Read and understand before deciding you are self-righteous.
The response of 'whatever' was actually quite childish yes. I used it against my mothers arguements when I was 12. It means you can't read someone else's thoughts and make a thoughtful response to them you just go 'whatever' and brush them off like they don't matter. I didn't say I wasn't childish frankly. I have panic attacks and can at times act quite like a baby. But I'm big enough to admit that. But yet again you seem to think I am trying to prove everything, I'm not. You can try and discredit me all you want and make me look bad, but I'm not the one here having a hard time at using my intelligience to at least realize everyone has different views.
I'm not blowing off the fact that there are risks that haven't been fully proven. They aren't proven, they are possible, but they aren't proven. So no, I won't go and just decide that you are right in thinking that I shouldn't have had one u/s (even if it was to peek) just because you were able to read some studies made 15 years ago that there could be damage in the overuse of u/s. When they are not fully proven (and frankly after 25 years someone should have come up with something by now) don't get on my case for thinking that one or two shouldn't cause major damage as everyone in my freaking town has had that many and none of the children have problems. I don't need some 1980's study to tell me what I've seen with my OWN eyes.
You can respond all you want from now on, you are obviously stuck on needing to be right. So go ahead, everyone who can read/understand will know that the only person able to call themselves "right" in whether or not they should have a u/s is themselves anyhow.
The lady who wanted responses obviously made up her own mind (good for her) so I'm making up my own now and staying off this damn thread seeing as the reason it was started was accomplished.
Hope everyone's pregnancy goes well, and that your choices are ones you can live with. I can and WILL live happily with my OWN, not someone elses.
I am saying, to each her own. Read and make up your own damn mind on what you feel is necessary and unncessary. To me, I had one to find out my due date, and one to make sure she was growing. Well excuse me for wanting to know whether or not there will be any risks to her. Gosh, I am such a horrid person for doing that right?
AS for the stupid ass surveys. The one I quoted was from 2001, simply to show that after all the studies they still hadn't proven it EITHER way. The ones you quoted were from...the 1980's? 70's? Think a little research might have gone on since then huh?? Let me quote myself here: "But I cannot prove they are completely harmless, no more than someone else can prove that they are harmful. " Now at what point did that sentence become "I'm right, you're wrong, they are completely harmless." Read and understand before deciding you are self-righteous.
The response of 'whatever' was actually quite childish yes. I used it against my mothers arguements when I was 12. It means you can't read someone else's thoughts and make a thoughtful response to them you just go 'whatever' and brush them off like they don't matter. I didn't say I wasn't childish frankly. I have panic attacks and can at times act quite like a baby. But I'm big enough to admit that. But yet again you seem to think I am trying to prove everything, I'm not. You can try and discredit me all you want and make me look bad, but I'm not the one here having a hard time at using my intelligience to at least realize everyone has different views.
I'm not blowing off the fact that there are risks that haven't been fully proven. They aren't proven, they are possible, but they aren't proven. So no, I won't go and just decide that you are right in thinking that I shouldn't have had one u/s (even if it was to peek) just because you were able to read some studies made 15 years ago that there could be damage in the overuse of u/s. When they are not fully proven (and frankly after 25 years someone should have come up with something by now) don't get on my case for thinking that one or two shouldn't cause major damage as everyone in my freaking town has had that many and none of the children have problems. I don't need some 1980's study to tell me what I've seen with my OWN eyes.
You can respond all you want from now on, you are obviously stuck on needing to be right. So go ahead, everyone who can read/understand will know that the only person able to call themselves "right" in whether or not they should have a u/s is themselves anyhow.
The lady who wanted responses obviously made up her own mind (good for her) so I'm making up my own now and staying off this damn thread seeing as the reason it was started was accomplished.
Hope everyone's pregnancy goes well, and that your choices are ones you can live with. I can and WILL live happily with my OWN, not someone elses.


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