Odd. Just, odd.

[WatermelonSnow]

Both ex and I are obligated to inform each other of address changes via certified mail. I received a certified letter from him last week saying that he was moving on June 1, with the new address. FTR, it's only a few blocks from where he is now.

DS was at ex's all weekend, from Th-Mon morning. I got the letter during that time. When DS came home he didn't mention anything about his dad moving, so I eventually asked a loose question like, "Is daddy getting a new house." DS looked at me strangely and said, "No."

His father is moving in less than two weeks! When the heck is planning on telling DS ?

I am so glad I don't have to interact with him any more than I do.

[pranamama]

that's weird

[BelovedK]

[mamamoo]

Wow, weird!

[SimpleJoys]

He did inform you by letter but it is weird he didn't tell your child. I wonder what that is about?

[WatermelonSnow]

DS has another overnight there tomorrow. Maybe he's planning on telling him then. We shall see...

[kalisis]

let's hope he does.

[MsChatsAlot]

My ex is like that too! He figures he'll just 'surprise' the kids?!?!? Not good, especially because our oldest really does better when he has time to process things.

[whateverdidiwants]

Is he still going to be living by himself? Or will he be living with someone else? THAT isn't something to "surprise" a kid with!

[WatermelonSnow]

Yeah, he's definitely into the inappropriate "surprise" when it comes to DS.

I'm 99.99% sure he'll still be living alone. I'm guessing he's moving b/c his mommy wants to pay less rent for him .

[pranamama]

[WatermelonSnow]

You laugh like it's funny.













Okay, it is

[WatermelonSnow]

Exie did tell DS during his most recent overnight. At least he told him before they moved.

[belovedofbast]

I know it's a bit late for a reply, but maybe he wanted to make sure you knew that he was moving before he told DS?

That way, he was sure you didn't hear it from the child first and didn't freak out that he wasn't complying with the order? Maybe?