Breaking up is hard to do

[Lisa_Lynn]

I was dating this amazing guy for three month, we were together everyday. He was very special. And he told me I was special too in alot of ways and that I was always good to him. Well tonight he told me he just wanted to be friends. He said he felt we rushed into this relationship. I am so heart broken, He was so good to me and my kid. My sister thinks he just got scared due to his past relationship and the fact of having such strong feelings for me, How do I move on? How do I not feel so sad?

[littleaugustbaby]

I'm really sorry. I know it doesn't help much now, but you will get past this.

[BelovedK]

Originally Posted by Lisa_Lynn

How do I not feel so sad?

It makes the pain hang around longer if we try to push it away. I would say feel your pain, it is right to feel pain at a time like this

He could be scared, but I would not hesitate for a second to lick my wounds and move on. If he is interested, he will approach you. You have your dignity, treasure that. There are plenty of guys out there who will accept you and your child.

[Fishie Kisses]

I agree, I think he's probably just scared. If he's the one, it will happen. If not you will find the strength to move on!

[Lisa_Lynn]

Thanks for the kind word. I am strong and will move on but it still stinks. Today is a new day.

[mikaela]

[MsChatsAlot]

Originally Posted by BelovedK

It makes the pain hang around longer if we try to push it away. I would say feel your pain, it is right to feel pain at a time like this.

Beautifully said, Kelly. It is true. Sit with your pain and feel it, then you will be able to let it go and move on. It does hurt for awhile, then it starts to feel better.

Sending you some support.

[Lisa_Lynn]

update

This happened today:

TJ, came over today to get his things. He had his stuff packed in minutes but he hung around for about 2 hrs. He said he was sorry it was nothing I did. It was him. But he tired to kiss me and was hugging me and if he knew I need some lovin, he would of gave it to me. I asked him why, you don't want me anyways. He makes no sense. I am not sure what to think, he confuses me and I am hurt badly. What are your thoughts? He also says I am a good women and deserve happiness. I told him, i know that. I was not so nice to him, not really mean, but I told him I was moving on and not looking back. But that I was crushed.

[LoveOhm]

I have no advice but wanted to offer HUGS!

[peachymomma]

Originally Posted by Lisa_Lynn

This happened today:

TJ, came over today to get his things. He had his stuff packed in minutes but he hung around for about 2 hrs. He said he was sorry it was nothing I did. It was him. But he tired to kiss me and was hugging me and if he knew I need some lovin, he would of gave it to me. I asked him why, you don't want me anyways. He makes no sense. I am not sure what to think, he confuses me and I am hurt badly. What are your thoughts? He also says I am a good women and deserve happiness. I told him, i know that. I was not so nice to him, not really mean, but I told him I was moving on and not looking back. But that I was crushed.

Sounds like he is confused too. sorry to hear that he is bringing this pain to you.

[PoppyMama]

This stuff happens. Breathe deep, grieve and then move on down the road. Next time just take things ssssllllllllooooooowwwwww. I hope you feel better soon.