After my dh's recent nervous breakdown due to extreme job-related stress, we're considering selling our home in CT and moving to VT (where I'm from) and buying a large piece of land (10-20 acres) with my sister and BIL & putting a house on it (or buying land w/an existing house if we can find something in our price range).
Our goal will be communal living for our two families (the ideal would be a house w/common areas and private family spaces as well. They don't have kids yet, but want them). Eventually we may also build a 2nd house on the property, etc.
While I don't find buying or moving to an existing house (regardless of condition) overly stressful, the thought of buying 20 rural acres and putting something on it is overwhelming to me. My dh is excited by the idea, but I'm scared.
I know we'd have to put in septic, well and get power out to the site. How long does that all take and how much are we talking about? What considerations do we have to think about when picking property? My dh wants a stream on the property, he'd love to be totally "off the grid" (except for high speed Internet of course, LOL).
In terms of a house on the land, we're not really willing to live in a tent while it's built, etc. My mom is willing to let us live with them if necessary before the house is livable, so it's not really an issue.
But how long does it usually take to get a prefab house or log home put on property? Are we talking years? Months? How many months? Winter in VT is not something I want to fool around with, with no place to live, kwim? I know we'd have to have the foundation put in (along w/the above well, septic, electric, etc). Is that a difficult thing to have done? Costly? Very costly? I just have no idea. I'm not worried about the finishing work. I've lived w/out walls for long periods of time and my dh is handy, so he and BIL can do the inside stuff.
Our goal is to have enough land to have chickens, some other animals for meat and wool, trees for firewood,etc. DH & I want to have as little mortgage as possible and think we can do this mostly w/the proceeds from selling our current home. BIL & sister will take out a mortgage for their part.
What are the things I should know and be thinking about? Help!! I'm excited and nervous at the same time!!
Our goal will be communal living for our two families (the ideal would be a house w/common areas and private family spaces as well. They don't have kids yet, but want them). Eventually we may also build a 2nd house on the property, etc.
While I don't find buying or moving to an existing house (regardless of condition) overly stressful, the thought of buying 20 rural acres and putting something on it is overwhelming to me. My dh is excited by the idea, but I'm scared.
I know we'd have to put in septic, well and get power out to the site. How long does that all take and how much are we talking about? What considerations do we have to think about when picking property? My dh wants a stream on the property, he'd love to be totally "off the grid" (except for high speed Internet of course, LOL).
In terms of a house on the land, we're not really willing to live in a tent while it's built, etc. My mom is willing to let us live with them if necessary before the house is livable, so it's not really an issue.
But how long does it usually take to get a prefab house or log home put on property? Are we talking years? Months? How many months? Winter in VT is not something I want to fool around with, with no place to live, kwim? I know we'd have to have the foundation put in (along w/the above well, septic, electric, etc). Is that a difficult thing to have done? Costly? Very costly? I just have no idea. I'm not worried about the finishing work. I've lived w/out walls for long periods of time and my dh is handy, so he and BIL can do the inside stuff.
Our goal is to have enough land to have chickens, some other animals for meat and wool, trees for firewood,etc. DH & I want to have as little mortgage as possible and think we can do this mostly w/the proceeds from selling our current home. BIL & sister will take out a mortgage for their part.
What are the things I should know and be thinking about? Help!! I'm excited and nervous at the same time!!





If you happen to find a nice piece of land that is 10 acres bigger than you need or want (more or less), please PM me.
Maybe we'd make good likeminded neighbors. It sounds like you are hoping to end up with exactly what we're hoping to end up with, and in the same area to boot.

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