Wow! My son must be the only one who hates to be worn. He and I both hate our ring sling. So I bought a Mei Tai, I love it, but he will only stand about 15 minutes in it. Oh well, I guess I will try as he gets older. My husband says no more money on carriers!
You may have more success as DS gets older and bigger. DD really started to like the MT when she was around 4 months (a month after I got it). By then she was able to really lift her head and look around. Maybe you'll have the same luck?