i always figure when something like this happens: it's simply that this little spirit or fertilized egg wasn't meant to be @ this time so it is the healthiest, best thing for it and you that s/he not grow to full term.
i'm glad you are moving through the mourning and sharing with us. take care; sending love!
a close friend had a m/c in 2nd trimester and it was so sad for her and now she has her daughter (born after).
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