talking to aunt about no circ when her first son was circed

[1littlebit]

I dont know if i should talk to her.. and if i should what to say. my cousin is 11mos and my aunt is pregnant again.. w/ a boy. she circed my cousin and as far as i know has no regrets the only intact members of my family are my brother and my son... and my uncle (but him and my aunt (not the same aunt) circed their son... go figure) i dont know how to bring this up sense they already circed their first ds and it was less then a year ago... i dont want to push to much b/c it was not so long ago.. you know? any suggestions?

[thixle]

If you don't tell her the truth, and she honestly doesn't know all the issues surrounding circ, it would be a huge disservice to her and her children.
I don't know the dynamics of your relationship, but I would come out with, "Can you take a look at some of this info I recently found out?" Or even watch that episode of Penn & Teller as an icebreaker...
But I feel it's my duty as a human being to try my damnedest to get circ to stop. Even if it is just one person at a time.

Have you read the Regret stickie at the top of the forum? That might give you some good jumping off points.
Good luck. Just be honest, open, and caring. When you know better, you do better.