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post #1 of 41
6/13/08 at 10:31am
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Not us. Mainly because I am waiting for my bikini wax. Since I couldn't see down there for months, it got out of control. Also, I looked at myself with a mirror, and I definitely need to do more kegels b/c part of my vagina was sort of hanging down/inside out/visible.
post #2 of 41
6/13/08 at 10:33am
We haven't nor do I feel inclined to at this time...lol
post #3 of 41
6/13/08 at 10:43am
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post #4 of 41
6/13/08 at 12:02pm
Only because DH STILL HASN'T GOTTEN FIXED. I'm not having sex without some sort of BC on board. Could you imagine? If I got pregnant right now I might just jump off a bridge.
post #5 of 41
6/13/08 at 12:19pm
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Originally Posted by Molliejo View Post
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BUT.. it was protected. because:

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If I got pregnant right now I might just jump off a bridge.
come on vasectomy!
post #6 of 41
6/13/08 at 12:33pm
Uhh Uh!!! NO WAY! I'm scared! Nah, not really, but I'm STILL bleeding, so as soon as it stops for good, we'll be good to go. Poor dh is about to explode!
post #7 of 41
6/13/08 at 12:40pm
nope -- i still have very low iron so I'm way too tired. I don't want to fall asleep midway through my "triumphant return"
post #8 of 41
6/13/08 at 1:12pm
Ive been having sex dreams like crazy (wasn't expecting that pp!), but my ... er ... area isn't ready yet. Besides, I'm so tired-- feel like I need to conserve my vital energy .
post #9 of 41
6/13/08 at 1:32pm
I did at about 4 weeks pp....and it was fun :
post #10 of 41
6/13/08 at 1:37pm
Hoping to soon, have to stick a finger up my vagina again first to see if it feels like it's not gonna prolapse though (can you have sex with a prolapsed uterus?) - it's felt a bit heavy until a couple days ago.

We've been playing though dh is super happy that I'm lactating again
post #11 of 41
6/13/08 at 1:40pm
We haven't. I'm still not feeling 100% "right" down there. Am I going to feel slightly different forever? It's not painful... just different.

DH is being wonderfully patient. We've had issues in the past (back when i was on the pill, my libido shrank from titanic to miniscule) where he's been less than understanding and patient... but he's being SUCH a sweetie. I've also helped him out in other ways, IYKWIM.
post #12 of 41
6/13/08 at 2:28pm
No we havent yet. but i am not even two weeks pp yet. but I hear ya on the sex dreams every single night. Really hating the idea of 4 more weeks no sex... my libido has been back up and running since like day 5 and I have a high one lol. How long do you have to wait?? and I had an episiotomy... I dont think dh will do anything untill the doctor gives an okay. so at least 4 more weeks of nothin for me. *sniff*
post #13 of 41
6/13/08 at 2:30pm
Not here...still feeling a little prolapse'ish so I'm doing kegels like *crazy*. Been doing other things though DH has been so awfully patient!
Ditto blizzard_babe - we've had our fair share of troubles so it's nice to finally be on the same wavelength. He's totally understanding and realizes that if we try something too soon and it goes bad, well it'll be a LOT longer before anything happens again


LOL Chantel! I don't blame you!
post #14 of 41
6/13/08 at 2:58pm
LOL...never thought I'd be one of the few. We did at a little over 2weeks PP (not long ago LOL). Last time we waited until over 5 and *I* would have waited longer. LOL I tore. But this time was so painless and I came away from the birth feeling better than ever so I guess I wasn't as scared. Not to say it felt GREAT, but nice to know I don't have as much to fear this time.
post #15 of 41
6/13/08 at 3:04pm
Not here. I was very afraid when I thought I had torn, but since I've found out I didn't I have kinda wanted to. The problem is I'm still so sore. The midwife said we could when we saw her at our two week check up. I laughed and said I thought I would wait until I could roll over in bed without crying. Christine are you still sore? Did it hurt when you guys did? I just don't want to start and end up hurting worse afterwards.
post #16 of 41
6/13/08 at 3:18pm
my bits aren't sore, just the bones/joints and advil deals with that. (I'm on it for my hands anyway)

TMI but I have a hair trigger in the postpartum weeks/months and my drive is still up from pregnancy so there's just no point in wasting it.
post #17 of 41
6/13/08 at 3:40pm
surprising DH this weekend...
post #18 of 41
6/13/08 at 3:42pm
Poor DH, he is counting the days.... he said "Only 5 1/2 more weeks!" and I casually mentioned... "Hey, isn't that when you are going on a business trip for 2 weeks and then I am leaving for 4 weeks for WA?" I thought the poor guy was going to cry. I doubt I will make him wait 6 weeks, but I need to get the bleeding issue under control first. I am bleeding today at 9d pp like I was at 2d pp. (See fever post)
post #19 of 41
6/13/08 at 4:18pm
I'm not cleared for intercourse for 4 more weeks because of the cs, but we engaged in sex-related activity before the staples were out (I think I've figured out how we beat the odds to conceive on bc in the first place).
post #20 of 41
6/13/08 at 6:25pm
Not even on my radar. I'm 6 weeks out and can still feel my tear. I'm not putting anything near that right now.

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We haven't. I'm still not feeling 100% "right" down there. Am I going to feel slightly different forever? It's not painful... just different.
I tore with dd1 and it still feels "different" almost 3 years out. Hasn't affected sex at all, but I notice it most when I'm bearing down for a bm. Not painful ... just different. Am wondering if this new tear will be the same way too ...
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