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post #1 of 9
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Our nursing adventure began shortly after my son's birth. James was aggressively suctioned while being born and then again a few minutes later. I put him to my breast as soon as possible and he began to nurse. He ate at the breast two more times that first day. The nurses at the hospital thought his latch looked good and didn't see a need for me to meet with a lactation consultant.

Two days after being home my nipples were cracked and terribly sore. I couldn't let James latch on because it was so incredibly painful. I didn't know how to feed my baby. My husband and I used a syringe and I hand expressed my colostrum into a shot glass and we measured every drop he ate. We were in desperate need of help and luckily a wonderful lactation consultant came into our lives. Cathy Holland, our lactation consultant, came over after our second visit with the pediatrician. The pediatrician told us James needed to eat more and suggested we supplement with formula. Cathy tried to help us get James to latch on, but he had no sucking reflex. What I, and the nurses in the hopsital, didn't notice was although our son appeared to be nursing he was only chewing on the nipple. Cathy also noticed that our son did not turn his head to the right, even when the breast was on that side. Our pediatrician never mentioned this, leading us to believe that it would have gone undiagnosed if not for Cathy. We worked with our son to encourage him to stick out his tongue and open his mouth wide while dripping milk into his mouth with the syringe. After he accomplished these two goals we inserted a pinkie into his mouth, along with the syringe, and would only administer milk while he was sucking. We had also tried full-time skin-to-skin contact, immersing him in water to "reset" him and just trying to "pop him on". Despite these efforts along with making sure I was holding him in the correct position, offering him the breast correctly and offering the breast every time he showed a hunger cue, he did not nurse.

Cathy had suggested Cranio-Sacral therapy as another way to help James. At our first CST appointment I was skeptical and nervous. The session began with our therapist, Michelle Mintz, helping me to release the anger and disappointment I felt due to the suctioning. I hadn't realized it, but there was a lot of tension in my stomach and once it was released I felt more relaxed. The most amazing part was that I was holding James while releasing the tension and when I had finished he sighed with relief! Michelle gently touched James' head and neck. Immediately she noticed that there was torque in his neck making it difficult for him to turn his head to the right. They worked together to relax his neck and allow the tissue to readjust. Again, he sighed. Michelle continued to work with James, but he would not allow her near his mouth during this first session. Later that day we noticed his head was turning to both sides and his suck had improved.

Our second visit with Michelle was even more amazing. This time, James did allow her to enter his mouth. Michelle and James worked together to improve his suck and continue to loosen his neck. Two days after that visit James began to nurse. At first it was only a few minutes at a time. Then, he nursed for 20 minutes, an entire meal at the breast! We were thrilled and relieved.

However, James did not continue to eat at the breast. He also stopped bobbing to the breast when in our favorite skin-to-skin hold. After consulting with Cathy we realized there must be something affecting our son and interfering with his desire and ability to nurse. We made a thirst CST appointment. This time, however, we saw another therapist named Kelly Handyside. Kelly held James and they started to relax and reposition his spine. James twisted and turned and Kelly gently held him. He continued to sigh and smile as his body was aligning itself. Kelly inserted a pinkie into James' mouth and they released the tissue in his neck, back of the skull and throat. Kelly also worked with James to improve his sucking rhythm, so it was more effective.


Two days after our third, and final, Cranio-Sacral Therapy appointment James nursed. He has continued to eat at the breast for every meal.
post #2 of 9
Wow! What an incredible story! I'm in tears reading your post- knowing first hand how difficult and emotional it is when you have nursing problems.
Way to go for sticking with it and not giving up. There are few people out there that would have done what you did. Big hugs momma! Enjoy your nursing journey and I hope everything is smooth for both of you from now on.
Julie
post #3 of 9
Janice, what a wonderful story with a very happy ending!!!

Kelly is freakin' awesome!! She healed dd1's birth trauma (also due to deep suctioning -- she would nurse, but not without a huge amount of screaming). And if you've read any of my blog entries about my CST sessions, those were all with Kelly too . I her!!! I really think the work I did with her is one of the main reasons my birth with Sophie went as well as it did. And she came to my house the day Sophie was born to work on her . No trauma or problems, I just felt it would be good for her.

Anyway, I think CST is totally amazing, and am so glad it helped you!!! I recommend it to anyone who is having nursing problems. And I'm curious, did James cry at all during his sessions? DD1 screamed her head off, she was so mad about what happened to her (the suctioning) -- you could feel the anger and rage rolling off of her (this was when she was around 3 or 4 months old). For her, I felt like the work was more emotional than physical. She had the mechanics of nursing down, but I think my powerful letdown triggered the trauma of the suctioning, so she would jerk off and scream . I don't know what I would have done if I hadn't found CST .

Enjoy that nursing relationship ... may it be long and happy .
post #4 of 9
nak

So glad you found such wonderful help and got it to work out.
post #5 of 9
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Shanana - James didn't cry at all with Michelle. He would just sigh as tension was being released. He cried with Kelly, though. She said when she got to his mouth he sent out this vibe like "woah, lets go slow here" which is the opposite of what happened at his birth (the lady across the hall was also pushing at the same time and there was only 1 midwife there). He was very angry, but he was also frustrated because he wanted to nurse but was so afraid to let my breast enter his mouth.

Instead of sucking, he was actually using his tongue to block his throat! He was trying to protect his airway. Last week he was yawning and I saw a mark on the roof of his mouth...its possible that it was caused by the suctioning.
post #6 of 9
Poor guy . Did they suction him for mec? What hospital were you at?

Newborns are not stupid, and it really enrages me that the mainstream medical community tends to treat them as if they are not emotional beings. Just because they can't speak doesn't mean you can do awful things to them. Can you imagine what it would be like to be suctioned? And as an adult, we would at least understand what was going on and why! It breaks my heart that deep suctioning was dd1's introduction to this world. I don't think I will ever completely leave that hurt behind, knowing she should have been snuggled in my arms, and that was happening to her instead . It's actually one of the reasons I chose a homebirth this time around, because I knew I would have complete control over everything that happened to my baby. And I had many long conversations with my mw about it too. She knew what happened with dd1, and knew my feelings on suctioning. She also does not believe in routine suctioning (not even with a bulb syringe) unless baby is not breathing.

Anyway, I think it is so wonderful that James is breastfeeding normally now. I didn't find CST for 3 or 4 months after having dd1, and they were some of the most hellish months of my life. I'm glad you were able to get help so soon, and get things back on track . Will I see you at the coffee night this week?
post #7 of 9
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He was suctioned with the bulb syringe...no mec, no "need" to be suctioned.

I'll definitely have a homebirth with our next baby(ies). My labor/delivery were about 90% what I wanted. I know with a home birth I can have 100% (especially since I'll be using the same awesome team that you had -- even though Sophia came before they got there).

James and I plan on attending the coffee night. It will be nice to meet you IRL.
post #8 of 9
Oh good, I'm looking forward to meeting you . And yes, Stacia is awesome!!! Even though she didn't make it to my birth . You will be in very, very good hands . (Most importantly, hands that know most of the time the best thing is to do nothing at all!)
post #9 of 9
What a great story! I was formula-supplemented because I had no suck reflex, and I know my mother wishes there was someone like that in her life at that point.

So glad it's going so well for you now!
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