So I have posted on here before about ds stepmom. He lives with his dad mon-fri and with me on weekends. He is here for the summer tho. He has been here for 3 weeks, and went to his dads this weekend for a wedding. He calls me last night and tells me stepmom(SM) cussed him out saying the f word severeal times and yelling and screaming at him, for something or another. Ds said his dad told her to stop and then she did. Today this morning ds calls me crying his head off(hes 14btw) that SM was cussing him out again, yelling, calling me bipolar, told DS I had an abortion, Told Ds I didnt believe in GOD(?) and other just random insane things about me. Ds then left as he was going somewhere with his friend. Ds is back with me in the morning. Ds' dad does nothing to stop this. He will tell her to stop, but it just keeps coming on and on. Ds wants to live with me,but his dad said no(he has full custody at the moment due to the school arrangements) and I do not have the $$ to fight, I have already checked legal aid and we make too much to qualify for that tho. Ds HATES his stepmom. She is always putting him down and me down to him and yelling at him. Its abuse IMO. I dont know what to do for him. She has all the control. HIs dad never talks to me. I have stopped talking to her as she was always yelling at me. She has his insurance card, she had the password to his school grades and wouldnt give it to me, she took him to a couselor without my permission, I could go on. and on. I do not even have his dads work #, so if there was an emergency, I would hav eto call HER. I am sick of it. I am sick of her treating ds like crap. I dont know what to do.Just a vent.
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6/15/08 at 11:36pm