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Originally posted by Hilary Dear Lucysmama,
If I were a mother happy to use a formula, (and didn't want to know that it was severely deficient in several significant areas) and just wanted people to pat me on the head and tel me that my current state of knowledge, was the state of art,...... then that isn't support.
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I'm sorry you don't feel that its supportive enough for the mother needing "support". It's a shame she isn't saying, herself.
Perhaps you would like to define for me how I'm not being supportive, and what you feel "being supportive" means, and how you would like to be more "supported". |
Hey now, no need to get snarky....

I was just trying to make things a little less intimidating for possible posters to get involved in, for the mother who needs advice, and to try to stick to what the OP said...to create a thread to support FF moms who don't vax. Sometimes when there is a debate about such things as food poisining/bacteria in a thread about supporting FF mamas, things get a little hard to sort through....esp. if you are new to MDC, and have a friend write in for advice.
Just keeping the OP and her friend in mind. That's all. No personal attack here. White flag. No defenses needed. What I posted, I did out of respect for *all* posters...please afford me the same courtesy.
I think a lot of valid points were made here, some of them very useful...and I am not discrediting anything any posters said...I was just hoping to help steer the thread in a new direction that may be helpful in another way to the OP/her friend.
No one needs to pat anyone's head here and tell them anything. That is condescending and not what I was saying at all. (Nor did I suggest anything remotely similar.) But the fact is, there ARE mamas here who cannot breastfeed, and will not vax, and need support, reassurance, and information about the correlation between the two. I know. I was one of them.
I am trying to help support a mama, just like you are.

I apologize if I offended anyone!!!
