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post #2441 of 2509
9/8/09 at 1:34am
Danielle,

Our adoption attorney was Scott Myers. Most likely he would talk to you for free. He would be able to tell you about parental rights including those of your husband. Since you are married at this time, he may have rights to the baby, but I'm not sure. Scott would know. He could also talk to you about what the biological father's rights are and if the domestic violence severs any of his rights or not. His number is 327-6041

Catholic Social Services is the only adoption agency in Arizona that works with adoptive parents that are not religious. Most likely they will not counsel you regarding abortion. However, they do offer free counseling on parenting versus adoption. We did have some trouble with this agency, but I think Lexanne, their main counselor for moms is alright.

You do need to find out your legal standing with the biofather if you continue the pregnancy. You're right, you don't want to be attached to him for the rest of your life. Sadly, abortion would be the surest way of not being attached to him, but I don't know if that's the best solution for you or not. Call Scott. He's a really nice guy and a good attorney. If he can't answer all your questions I'm sure he's got leads on resources that would help you. Afterall, this is what he does, help women find solutions to difficult pregnancies.
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post #2442 of 2509
9/8/09 at 11:34am
Good Morning Everyone,

Is anyone interested in going to TBG, the zoo, or the Children's Museum either today or tomorrow?
post #2443 of 2509
9/8/09 at 12:14pm
Danielle, I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. Good for you for keeping yourself and your family safe. You'll find tons of support here... I know all of us are happy to help with kids, meet for coffee, etc., to give whatever support you need as you move forward from this.

Everybody, we're back in Tucson and trying to get off of Eastern time. I am so tired!
post #2444 of 2509
9/8/09 at 1:18pm
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Originally Posted by mybabysmama View Post
Good Morning Everyone,

Is anyone interested in going to TBG, the zoo, or the Children's Museum either today or tomorrow?
possibly tomorrow! we are hanging out today at home and doing a bunch of laundry and cleaning that got pushed aside over our long weekend.

okay sarah~ clothes swap planning time, when is good?
post #2445 of 2509
9/8/09 at 10:37pm
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possibly tomorrow! we are hanging out today at home and doing a bunch of laundry and cleaning that got pushed aside over our long weekend.
Jen, any more thoughts on tomorrow?

How's your laundry. I actually put most of mine away today AND did the children's museum. woo hoo. Big day for me.
post #2446 of 2509
9/9/09 at 12:43am
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Jen, any more thoughts on tomorrow?

How's your laundry. I actually put most of mine away today AND did the children's museum. woo hoo. Big day for me.

i dont think we are going anywhere- olive is sniffly and fevery and i dont know whats up with that.
post #2447 of 2509
9/9/09 at 2:36am
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i dont think we are going anywhere- olive is sniffly and fevery and i dont know whats up with that.
oh no, hope she feels better soon.
i was thinking of coming out but i'll probably just stay home and continue my mad de-cluttering/organizing spree instead.
post #2448 of 2509
9/10/09 at 1:38am
Hey folks! I know this is a bit late but the little girl I'm watching most Thursdays is sick so I won't be on duty tomorrow. I'd like to do the park and then maybe the 10:30 Himmel library story time. Anyone want to come? G was waking at 8:30, then she switched to 6:30, then this morning she slept until 8 again. So, her wake time will determine our park time, but my guess is that we'd be there between 8 and 9.
post #2449 of 2509
9/10/09 at 9:58am
I'd definitely be up for meeting at the park.... our schedule is kind of crazy right now because we're going through the time change adjustment and Carter is just slightly insane in general! He has been waking up at 3 am, but today he slept until 5:30--huzzah! I will aim for 8/9 for the park, though if we don't show it's because he fell asleep. Maybe I'll make a point to bike there so he can sleep in the bike trailer at the park... we'll see! Anyway, hope to see you!
post #2450 of 2509
9/10/09 at 12:59pm
Sarah, Gia just woke up 15 mins ago. She's fed and dressed and we're heading out the door. I hope we see you.
post #2451 of 2509
9/11/09 at 12:24am
Here's an interesting article on race and young children http://www.newsweek.com/id/214989/page/1
post #2452 of 2509
9/11/09 at 2:05pm
Hey mamas! Nice park morning yesterday! Such calm kiddos.

I've mentioned that I'm helping out at my husband's office. Originally I was just going to do administrative work but we decided it would be useful for me to go ahead and get licensed and be more of a partner than an assistant. This isn't exactly what I envisioned as my world-changing career but I have to say it is the right path for now. It is soo great to have the flexibility to have G in the office (that is working better this week) and to come and go as needed. Anyway, I may or may not be around too much depending on our level of get up and go after working in the mornings. So hello from internetlandia if I don't see you in person!
post #2453 of 2509
9/12/09 at 1:54pm
Becca, I think it's cool that you and your husband will be partners! I'm sure it'll lead to even more flexibility, etc. I'm happy to get a quote from you, I'll send you a PM.

My little guy turns 2 today!!!!! :joy: To celebrate I sent him over to his grandma's and had breakfast with my two best friends, haha. I just started feeling the baby move in my belly a few days ago, I can't believe it's all happening again.
post #2454 of 2509
9/12/09 at 4:51pm
Happy Happy Happy Happy Birthday to big brother Carter!!!

...and thanks Sarah.
post #2455 of 2509
9/12/09 at 5:15pm
Happy Birthday, Carter
post #2456 of 2509
9/12/09 at 7:01pm
Happy Birthday Carter!!
Zoe had fun playing with you the other day!
post #2457 of 2509
9/12/09 at 8:50pm
Does anyone want to get together on Wed.? TBG, zoo, children's museum?
post #2458 of 2509
9/14/09 at 1:50pm
I have an appt tomorrow at 8:30 that I can't take the kids too and its in central tucson. Is there anyone that could watch them for a little bit and then since it's a heck of a drive I (and the kids) would love to go to the park and have some fun, go out to lunch etc make a day of it. It's grant/swan area and it takes me 50 minutes just to drive there....maybe i should cancel...i'm not sure how much help its going to be.

I haven't received any prenatal care yet and i'm 11 weeks 2 days. Not even sure where to go for it anymore.
post #2459 of 2509
9/14/09 at 2:02pm
We have a pediatrician visit at 10 and have to leave around 9:30. I'm thinking that doesn't give you enough time to get back otherwise I'd watch them. Can you change your appt time or day?

What about starting with the birth center until you've decided what you want to do?
post #2460 of 2509
9/14/09 at 2:08pm
The Parent Connection referred us to someone to help with my guy's aggression towards his little sister. Although it's been better recently, it still seeps in. I met with him briefly this morning and he said my guy is screaming for playmates and to look at preschool. Although I want to homeschool, I am desperate to help him now so am taking his advice. I was lucky enough to find a slot in a really good school we'd previously looked at, but it's 4 days a week. I'm bummed about that, I'd only wanted two or three days, but relieved to have found him something. He starts next Monday. (Assuming my husband agrees and I know he will.) The money is astronomical. Fortunately we have a little bit from when we sold a car. Enough to pay for 5 months tuition. We'll see what happens after that.

It looks like I'll be gearing most of my activities to baby stuff.

The bright side is my house will be clean!!!!