I feel awful about it, but he did see my point, but he still feels like he is skipping out on her... but we are throwing her, her own party with our family! Is there anything I can do to make him feel better about it?
Or should I just tell him to go? But I know DSD will be confused if he goes without me and she will be sad... she may even be sad that we are not there at all... But I just can't get around this in my head about her getting two parties and us being at both, when my child will only ever have one... it's not really fair.
How do you guys handle these things?
What bronxmom said about the two parties--really, your child has the advantage. Getting two parties and two christmas's doesn't make up for your parents not being together.
And who says your child can't have two parties? Do a party with kids and do a party with family.