Still trucking!
I am the phobic nut... and I am now almost 37 weeks. I have had one needle for a blooddraw, which I DID MYSELF

I hit it the first try. No matter what, even with sedation, I wouldn't let them do it to me

I just could not cope. So before being dropped as a client and ending up having NO care provider (NO ONE would see me without basic bloodwork) I just took the needle and did it myself. Success!
I declined everything else except scans... all is perfect! Have not had a vaginal exam yet, my MW says there's no need, it would only make me panic and stress.
Taking evening primrose oil, rasberry leaf... feeling pretty good considering. Have gained about 30 pounds, which isn't too bad I guess. I am really tall and slender with super wide boned build, so I hope it all goes well.
I'm so blessed I found a midwife willing to work with my fears and now all I have to do is get through birth needle free and I can say I DID THIS! And it wasn't even that bad...
Baby boy is super hyper and I can't wait to meet him.