A few weeks before I found out I was pregnant (I've been trying for a year, though), my dh said he wanted to use the name Helen in some way for a girl. Helen was his grandmother's name. We both decided that we like Helena. Doubt we'll have a girl, though. That leaves us with a tough decision on a boys name that sounds good with Desmond and Gavin and an Italian last name! No real ideas yet. I'd like to use my father's name-Joseph-as a middle name, though.