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His penis is SO beautiful....

post #1 of 61
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.....These are the words of my Circ'ed Dh who wanted to Circ ds, but I fought till I was about to go to a divorce attorney. Anyway the point is you can change your DP's minds and now that he sees his sons beautiful intact penis it pains to even think he was going to mutilate it. He also said he hopes we have another boy so there will be another intact male around.
Finally I made Dh an Intactavist.!!!!
post #2 of 61
That's awesome... thanks for sharing.

Jessica
post #3 of 61
That is so great to hear!
post #4 of 61
That's so great!

your hubby for us!
post #5 of 61
awesome

Interesting thread title, by the way.
post #6 of 61
yeah, the title was a little shocking.
post #7 of 61
I admit. I clicked because of the title. That's great though! Should we have a boy it's good to know there is hope of changing dh's mind about this subject.
post #8 of 61
I'm so glad he changed his mind, and even more happy that you stood firm and refused to have him circ'd no matter what.
post #9 of 61
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I'm so glad he changed his mind, and even more happy that you stood firm and refused to have him circ'd no matter what.
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post #10 of 61
My dh who is cut and originally from Israel (where everyone is cut and brainwashed that intact penis is gross and dirty) also thinks that Jonah's penis is beautifull
post #11 of 61
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Originally Posted by hipmummy View Post
.....These are the words of my Circ'ed Dh who wanted to Circ ds, but I fought till I was about to go to a divorce attorney. Anyway the point is you can change your DP's minds and now that he sees his sons beautiful intact penis it pains to even think he was going to mutilate it. He also said he hopes we have another boy so there will be another intact male around.
Finally I made Dh an Intactavist.!!!!
what an awesome mama you are to protect your baby like that!!!!

please don't be mad at me if you want a girl, but I do wish you guys another beautiful perfect intact boy! I think that having intact son(s) is very healing for your husband. there can never be too many intact males, right?!
post #12 of 61


Only on MDC could you post that title about your baby and others not think you were crazy. I am glad we have another intactivist on our side. I think the ones who were so certain and then changed their minds, like your Dh, turn into the best advocates.

Lydia
post #13 of 61
I'm not sure how I feel about the thread title at all :\
post #14 of 61
WTG mama you made me tear up so happy to hear you got your dh on board too
post #15 of 61
I admit the title was a shocking for me (as I already said) but now thinking about it, I know what he means. Like sometimes I think of a intact penis (not in a sexual way at all) and imagine what it would be like if my penis was like that, and this comforting/calming feeling sets over me.

I grew up always wondering why I had a scar, and what was changed. The calming feeling can best be described in words as "thats how its suppose to be"

Sadly I dont think most people who are intact, never fully understand the gift they were given.

I think this was a click moment where you husband finally understands what "intact" really means. Not the idea of having a foreskin, but what it really means to be "whole".
post #16 of 61
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I'm not sure how I feel about the thread title at all :\
when there are no dark thoughts in someone's head, what exactly to feel uncomfortable about here?!
post #17 of 61
guys, Americans are so worked up (I'd even say obsessed) about the whole pedophile thing...it's not even funny...
I think it has a lot to do with the country being so religious and conservative…
kind of sad.

one can't even say such a wonderful thing without being made feel like a pervert
post #18 of 61
I like the title because I agree-my sons intact penis is beautiful! No really, I mean hes 8 now so I dont even look at it anymore but I remember thinking when I'd change his diapers how much better it looked to me-just whole, not scarred, just the way it was meant to be. So I can understand where she is coming from!!!

Congratz on your dh!! I think its wonderful! I wonder how many other men are very pro circ and then after being around an intact penis for awhile, start to see it differently.
post #19 of 61
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Originally Posted by Yulia_R View Post
guys, Americans are so worked up (I'd even say obsessed) about the whole pedophile thing...it's not even funny...
I think it has a lot to do with the country being so religious and conservative…
kind of sad.

one can't even say such a wonderful thing without being made feel like a pervert
Yeah it really sucks, especially if your a guy. My friends Dad thinks babies are cute and makes faces at little kids sometimes and they laugh, but parents look at him like he is some kind of creep.

Or I had a photography assignment for my class and I asked my female friend to take a few shots for me in the park because I was worried someone would think I was a creep because I was a guy in a park taking pictures of children.
post #20 of 61
How wonderful! Great title!

My partner wants to circ our sons, even though he knows that I am dead set against circing. I've printed off about oh, 400 pages of information, literature, stories, and pictures, and I have books, and I told him, when it comes time to have children, I'll leave him with my anti-circ info. for a day when he promises to read through everything, and then when I come back, I know he'll become an Intactavist!
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