I'm hoping someone can give me some info here since I now can't stop thinking about this.
We had our first baby 8 months ago at a birth center. It was a natural birth with minimal intervention. Right after she was born, I apparently bled a lot. I wasn't even aware of it at the time. I'd had a 26 hour labor and was just focused on my little one. But the midwife and the rest of the staff apparently had to press hard on my uterus to try to stop the bleeding, and then I had to get a shot of Pitocin because the bleeding wouldn't stop. My husband, who has a medical background and is not one to worry easily, actually thought I was going to die based on the amount of blood and the staff's nonverbal communication as this was going on. But after the Pitocin, I soon stopped bleeding and everything was fine.
I asked the midwife at my 6 week follow-up whether I would be likely to have that kind of bleeding again if we were to have another baby. He said that with my next birth, they would just have Pitocin ready to go for right after the birth and so it wouldn't be an issue.
So I haven't really thought about it much since then. Until yesterday. I found out yesterday that a friend of a friend had a baby last week, and hemorrhaged afterwards, and became critically ill. Three days later she had a stroke and died.
Aside from feeling horror for this woman and her family, I am now also rethinking how safe it is for me to have another child. I know, the midwife said it shouldn't be an issue but that's not enough to keep me from feeling really freaked out.
Anyone have any experience or information on this? I'd appreciate any responses!
We had our first baby 8 months ago at a birth center. It was a natural birth with minimal intervention. Right after she was born, I apparently bled a lot. I wasn't even aware of it at the time. I'd had a 26 hour labor and was just focused on my little one. But the midwife and the rest of the staff apparently had to press hard on my uterus to try to stop the bleeding, and then I had to get a shot of Pitocin because the bleeding wouldn't stop. My husband, who has a medical background and is not one to worry easily, actually thought I was going to die based on the amount of blood and the staff's nonverbal communication as this was going on. But after the Pitocin, I soon stopped bleeding and everything was fine.
I asked the midwife at my 6 week follow-up whether I would be likely to have that kind of bleeding again if we were to have another baby. He said that with my next birth, they would just have Pitocin ready to go for right after the birth and so it wouldn't be an issue.
So I haven't really thought about it much since then. Until yesterday. I found out yesterday that a friend of a friend had a baby last week, and hemorrhaged afterwards, and became critically ill. Three days later she had a stroke and died.
Aside from feeling horror for this woman and her family, I am now also rethinking how safe it is for me to have another child. I know, the midwife said it shouldn't be an issue but that's not enough to keep me from feeling really freaked out.
Anyone have any experience or information on this? I'd appreciate any responses!




Very long posterior labor that was both poorly and overly managed by medical procedures...long story short, I pushed for four hours in a bad position, lacerated my cervix, had no idea, a week later the scab on it came off and I hemorraged. Fun stuff!
) b.drink some gatorade every now and again c.) DH is going to force me to eat d.) I will comsume a peice of my placenta.
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